You can't decide what happens to you but you can decide how to react to what is happening to you

destin.

Personal Growth

I want to break up with my gf but she has not done anything wrong. i just don't have feelings for her now like i think she's not the one for me. And now when i think about this, it was a forced relation. It was my mistake that i just got into a relationship with her cuz i was lonely, other than this there is nothing i like about her that much. I don't know what to do. She is such a pure soul but i don't wanna ruin her life.

Breakup

Feeling lonely😞

Realizing the lack of mental fitness in people all around the world gave me an idea to open up a anonymous cafe in my town, where it would be promoted to seat with a stranger and talk our heart out, without giving up name…what do u guyz think about it?

Society

It's kinda amazing to see now that I'm finally working on myself to be better and change my mind patterns, how comfortable I feel in my negative space of mind due to my accomodation in it. I've been there for so long I made a home I shouldn't have. Trying to get out of it it's so difficult because I don't think it's right, it makes me feel weak and embarrassed and uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. I self-sabotage myself by feeling guilty and shame for trying to get out and change, for trying to not live miserable for once. It's so hard it makes me want to give up, and that's why I feel lucky that I found myself, my true self and can grab into it so I have the enough strength to get out. 
I always thought that those bad feelings, self-sabotaging thoughts and miserability was part of myself. That was me, there was no point of getting out because that it's what it makes me. I couldn't escape myself after all because I'm me, and that all together made my life a living hell. From outside and inside. It made me pity myself, bitter, sad and angry. I took years of trying, giving up, and all over again. The painful cycle. But I want to believe I did it... I found pieces of myself in all that dark water. None of that bad shit defined me, I'm not the exaggeration of evil that my mind created of myself. I'm so much more than that, I'm capable of a lot... I'm believing. I'm healing. It's beautiful.
Of course, this is life. My cycle of healing is just beginning, and I'm sure my path will be difficult, but I finally found the strength to begin. A strength to keep going. To break the cycle  to change my patterns of mind. 
Healing is a process that I never thought I could reach but I'm starting and I'm happy for it. I'm believing, which is important too. I got something to hold on, and that's me. It's painful, uncomfortable, embarrassing. But it's beautiful. And if I have to go through that journey no matter how long it takes to reach my best self, then heck yeah I will go through all of that to reach it.

Self Esteem

Body Positivity

Alone, bored

Depression

My ex who i still love is getting married next month what do i do i cant move on and he has feelings too bt we cant do anything now

Overthinking

Yesterday I met this really cute guy and we started talking I eventually gave him my Snap. We are going to hangout Tuesday evening and I think he wants to you know. I kind of want that too because I’m a teenager and I have been curious of it for a long time now. My only problem is that I’m scared he will tell people because I don’t want anybody to know since I’m still in school and stuff. 

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