You are a rare breed. 

R A R E. 

No one in this whole world is like you. 

No one can think like you think. 
No one can talk like you talk. 
No one can love like you love. 

Stop being a SHEEP! 

Stop following the crowds. They don't know shit. 

Vibe alone for a while. Get in touch with your power. 

And then go win the world.

Motivation

 Zyada nahi jaanti uske baaremein
Par jitna bhi jaana hai ussey pehchan ne lagi hu. 

Love

my thoughts are unapproved and it underwent checking 

Life

“Ignore those that make you fearful and sad, that degrade you back towards disease and death.”

I need a tattoo. Or haircolor. Or a solo travel. My life can't keep being this way.

Adulting

I am confused.I have my office today. Technically first day at office

.In last visit, I didn't get Access.I don't want to go, coz I am not feeling good mentally. No one even like me there. I don't like to talk, so it doesn't even matter right? I am crying since Last night. I am feeling very alone and pain in me head. I should take sick leave? Or I should go?

Depression

Let's talk about something real – the journey of finding that perfect partner and the heart-wrenching experience of losing them. It's like chasing a dream, pouring your heart into something that feels so right, only to see it slip away.

The Quest for Perfection:
We all want that special connection, someone who just gets us. It's magical when you find it – like discovering a missing piece of yourself. The excitement, the laughter, the shared dreams – it feels like everything's falling into place.

The Gut-Wrenching Loss:
But life isn't always a fairy tale. Losing that perfect person, the one you thought would be your forever, hits hard. It's a pain that lingers, leaving you questioning everything and wondering if you'll ever find that magic again.

Chasing Shadows:
In the aftermath, we often catch ourselves searching for traces of that perfection in new faces. It's like trying to recreate a masterpiece, but every stroke falls short. The disappointment is real, and it stings.

Riding the Rollercoaster of Disappointment:
The cycle of hope and letdown can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. It's okay to admit that it hurts. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's alright to take a moment to catch your breath.

Finding You in the Mess:
Here's the thing – amidst the heartbreak, there's an opportunity for self-discovery. It's a chance to understand what you truly need and want. The journey is not just about finding someone; it's about finding yourself too.

A Shoulder to Lean On:
If the disappointment is getting heavy, don't hesitate to reach out. As your friendly Counseling Psychologist, Bhavna Pande, I'm here to lend an ear, share some insights, and help you navigate through the mess.

Remember, it's okay to hurt, and it's okay to seek support. In the messiness of it all, we often discover strength we never knew we had.

Take care,
Bhavna Pande - Your Friendly Counseling Psychologist

Breakup

Why men hate it when you start giving them much attention! They just try to stay away 🙍‍♀️

Frustration

Today I feel down. Let me explain a bit of my history, 2 years ago I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer Hodgkin’s lymphoma. After a year of non-stop treatments, in and outs of hospitals, the Dr finally declared me in remission (cancer is stable). 

However, one of the main side effects of the chemo, Dr say the chances for me to have children is slim to non-existence. 

Today while I was in traffic, I saw a mother and daughter walking on the side of the rode. The daughter is maybe around 5 years old and was wearing a cute pink handbag and eating ice cream. Both parent and child were holding hand and walking together and smiling to each other. Then it just hit me that I not able to hold my children hands like that due to me being sterile. It breaks my heart as I always fantasize to have children of my own. 

I thought about adopting but I’m afraid that due to the severity of my condition, I might relapse and not live a long life and the adopted kid would just return to the system. Both of my parents are both retired and would not have the energy to take care a small child. My fiancé is not interested in having children. If we decided to adopted and if I’m gone, I do not want to burden her with a child that she doesn’t want. Also in my country, single men are not allowed to adopt for safety reason which I totally agree.

It kills me in the inside as I have so much of love to give and I would definitely spoil my kids to the max. 

Thanks for reading, just need to share.

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