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Anonymous

Yo girls, let’s say you’re at a nightclub, would you like a guy to approach you? (Obviously with manners)

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@ruchi23

Definitely

Anonymous

@ruchi23 can tell some subtle ways to not come off as a creepy in this situation

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Anonymous

Introduce yourself, ask her name. A nice smile goes a long way, if she responds, politely ask her if you can buy her a drink.

Anonymous

Thanks 👍

@ruchi23

Just go to her, introduce yourself in a nice manner, smile, don’t be chipku, behave properly, then ask her if you can have a conversation with her. Just politely and trying not to disrespect her.

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Anonymous

Sweet! Would you be down for something more than a lil chat tho

@ruchi23

Sorry, didn’t get that??

Anonymous

Thanks 👍

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Anonymous

I mean, let’s say I’ve approached you, but in the back of the mind my intension is to hookup. Would that be fine to ask

@ruchi23

And please please don’t compliment about her dress or her body because that can be offensive.
PRO TIP- always start by complimenting her smile.

@ruchi23

In this case I can say that now even girls are interested in hookups, but to know that you’ve to know what she wants.

Anonymous

Replying to this msg Sweet! Would you be down for something more than a lil chat tho

By something more u mean like a magic trick or flirting

@ruchi23

Haha I’ll go for a magic trick.

@painisgone

Gotta learn some magic tricks then

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Anonymous

Nope i mean, a one night stand of something similar

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Anonymous

So true haha

@ruchi23

You can ask the girl if she’s okay with it or not, because sometimes even girls also want one night stand and there’s nothing wrong in it.

@ruchi23

@painisgone definitely 😂

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Anonymous

Yupp. You seem cool tho, would you like to be in touch?

@ruchi23

Sure, your name?

@ruchi23

Yes, you can drop your handle

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Anonymous

angrah ? full name?

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Anonymous

I’d like a guy to approach me but with a friendly respectful manner. We know night clubs usually lead to something more but if you approach a girl with the same intention in your manner, then that might scare us off as it seems to be very creepy.

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Anonymous

So you’re trying to say that we should be friendly first, even if we’re looking for something more?

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Anonymous

Yes! From our perspective, we have seen and met a lot of creeps. So we can Instantly tell if a guy is approaching us genuinely or with some creepy intent.

And by genuinely I mean, approach us respectfully in way of talking and gestures. Compliment us but not some creepy compliment. Start the conversation by saying something like "I have seen you quite a few times here… " Or something similar. Something that sounds general.

Anonymous

YES. But with manners matters a lot. That can make or break the vibe.

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Anonymous

Definitely! But the would you be down for something more?

Anonymous

Depends on the girl

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@flute

Haha…nightclub!! But if she is Cinderella who has a specific in-time?!😂

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Anonymous

Well if she looks like you, i would be approaching her anytime 😌

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@flute

That was smooth!😂😊

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Anonymous

So what do you say pretty girl? 😌 Wanna be friends?😂

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@flute

Certainly, but it’s fun to be good acquaintances first!

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Anonymous

Definitely 😌
Want to share your insta?

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@flute

Sure but let me clarify…I am not at all looking for any sort of hookups or even strings attached!😐

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Anonymous

Chilk out 😂 i also just wanna be friends/ acquaintance

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@flute

Whats ur ig handle?

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