Yesterday I was talking to my best friend and I was making her happy like we were having romantic conversation but then she told me that she still have soft croner for ex. And that shock me I felt disappointed . And I m not getting it what should I do now like I was trying to impress her but now she still have soft corner and what if his ex msg her and she will go there then what about me?
What is a romantic conversation?
Like you are special to me and I love you your are everything for me and etc.
Okay but tbh iβd say that to my friend as well
Yss but what I said was different means canβt say to normal friend. And I think even she is not for me like at first I thought I got what I was searching for but now slowly slowly getting realized that. She is for a reason or for a lesson in mt life. And I think she is one of them to whom you treat more then she deserve but still she will go to π©.
Wow nice guy, you treat her better than she deserves? And what is that supposed to look like, huh?
I donβt know why I m doing with her but yeah . Just doing it and that making me happy and at the same time making Me feel like my potential is going waste.
I was being sarcastic. Your potential is going to waste? Idk what you mean, you either love her and want whats best for her, or you care more about what you think you deserve to get back from her.
rahul puranik @rahul19
Yes I know but I want best for her and for me also . But she is not getting realized that I m putting so much efforts. What I get in return is nothing.
You get friendship. I know you want something else but its not her not realizing that you put effort into it. Youβre supposed to do that, youβre her friend. If she sees you as a friend, thats just how it is. Idk why you think putting in effort will change that
That what should I do then ? Should I stop putting efforts?
Idk, do you wanna stay friends or not?
Not friends but more then that.
Yeah then ask her. If she doesnβt wanna be more than friends, just accept that
Yes but she so weird na like she wonβt call me everytime I call her and one day I didnβt just wanted to see whether she calls me or not but she didnβt. And lose myself and call her. πͺand this makes me to think like I m not imp to her.
Iβd talk to her about that. You deserve to know how things are between you, and if it really turns out that youβre not that important to her, in which case iβd be sorry, itβd still be good for you to know so you donβt waste time with someone who doesnβt care anyways.
Yes and slowly slowly it turning on me I think because I send her messages and she havenβt reply yet and was online on snapchat 2 hrs ago. It feels so sad that you give your potential and in the end you donβt get anything. π
Yes and I think itβs slowly turning on me. And it feels so sad to know that she havenβt reply yet to my messages.
Yes, but thats life. Also donβt be mad at her, if she doesnβt want you, thats just how it is
Yes but why I m thinking about her like I used to first when I was in relationship my morning used to start with the thought of my gf. Same kind of thing is happening. Not when I came to know little things like msg and all its hurting me from inside and feeling like why it always happen with me like in past I was ditched 2 times and now hard to loveπ₯²