Yesterday I was talking to my best friend and I was making her happy like we were having romantic conversation but then she told me that she still have soft croner for ex. And that shock me I felt disappointed . And I m not getting it what should I do now like I was trying to impress her but now she still have soft corner and what if his ex msg her and she will go there then what about me?
What is a romantic conversation?
Like you are special to me and I love you your are everything for me and etc.
Okay but tbh i’d say that to my friend as well
Yss but what I said was different means can’t say to normal friend. And I think even she is not for me like at first I thought I got what I was searching for but now slowly slowly getting realized that. She is for a reason or for a lesson in mt life. And I think she is one of them to whom you treat more then she deserve but still she will go to 💩.
Wow nice guy, you treat her better than she deserves? And what is that supposed to look like, huh?
I don’t know why I m doing with her but yeah . Just doing it and that making me happy and at the same time making Me feel like my potential is going waste.
I was being sarcastic. Your potential is going to waste? Idk what you mean, you either love her and want whats best for her, or you care more about what you think you deserve to get back from her.
rahul puranik @rahul19
Yes I know but I want best for her and for me also . But she is not getting realized that I m putting so much efforts. What I get in return is nothing.
You get friendship. I know you want something else but its not her not realizing that you put effort into it. You’re supposed to do that, you’re her friend. If she sees you as a friend, thats just how it is. Idk why you think putting in effort will change that
That what should I do then ? Should I stop putting efforts?
Idk, do you wanna stay friends or not?
Not friends but more then that.
Yeah then ask her. If she doesn’t wanna be more than friends, just accept that
Yes but she so weird na like she won’t call me everytime I call her and one day I didn’t just wanted to see whether she calls me or not but she didn’t. And lose myself and call her. 😪and this makes me to think like I m not imp to her.
I’d talk to her about that. You deserve to know how things are between you, and if it really turns out that you’re not that important to her, in which case i’d be sorry, it’d still be good for you to know so you don’t waste time with someone who doesn’t care anyways.
Yes and slowly slowly it turning on me I think because I send her messages and she haven’t reply yet and was online on snapchat 2 hrs ago. It feels so sad that you give your potential and in the end you don’t get anything. 💔
Yes and I think it’s slowly turning on me. And it feels so sad to know that she haven’t reply yet to my messages.
Yes, but thats life. Also don’t be mad at her, if she doesn’t want you, thats just how it is
Yes but why I m thinking about her like I used to first when I was in relationship my morning used to start with the thought of my gf. Same kind of thing is happening. Not when I came to know little things like msg and all its hurting me from inside and feeling like why it always happen with me like in past I was ditched 2 times and now hard to love🥲
