Yesterday I was talking to a friend about marriage stuff, he said that the person whom we wanted to marry is married to someone else now, so he doesn’t care whom he gets married to now.
I said that you can’t do this to yourself, the girl you were with was for a few years, you have your whole life ahead of you, so don’t think like that and evaluate marriage prospects seriously.
And what’s strange is I feel exactly like what he said, the things I told him to do, I’m not able to do for myself.
Ye to mere tarah socha bhai ne
We shouldn’t be like this you know
Mai to shaadi bhi nahi karunga jis sai mere karan kisi ka jivan kharab ho agar shaadi krunga usse aur agar usse dukh hoga mere karan to isme meri galti hogi isliye nahi krunga
Main bhi isilye shaadi nahi karna chahti
Par main yeh bhi nahi chahti ki main aise insaan ki wajah se zindagi bhar single rahun jissey mere nahi hone se kuch farak hi nahi padta
Ye baat bhi sahi kaha aap ne
I was like you once… I used to think kisi se bhi shadi ho Jaye kya fark padta hai… But with time, I healed and now I know I will be the best life partner for the person I will marry. So don’t worry, you are a good human being, I am sure you will not hurt his/her sentiments and all these thoughts of yours will vanish with time.
I hope it vanishes soon 🫂
