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Anonymous

Yesterday I was talking to a friend about marriage stuff, he said that the person whom we wanted to marry is married to someone else now, so he doesn’t care whom he gets married to now.
I said that you can’t do this to yourself, the girl you were with was for a few years, you have your whole life ahead of you, so don’t think like that and evaluate marriage prospects seriously.
And what’s strange is I feel exactly like what he said, the things I told him to do, I’m not able to do for myself.

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Unprocessable @422

And what scares me is, the life of your/their partner. I understand your point, but, what if the other person has a lot of hope from their partner. How disappointed they would be.
Don’t break their heart, atleast.

And imagine, your life partner is suffering, just because you once met somebody who was not meant for you. Think.

And ik you are not saying it that way, but still, think.
Think what if you marry a person like you, who doesn’t have any interest or whatsoever. That’s scary.

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Anonymous

That’s what I said, I don’t want to be like this
I absolutely don’t want to spoil anyone’s life, and I don’t want to spoil my life either because of a person who didn’t value me.
But easier said than done, I’m struggling everyday to follow the advice which I gave my friend. Trust me when I say that I would never want to spoil anyone’s life, i very sincerely hope I heal soon and forget the person who left me.

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Anonymous

Ye to mere tarah socha bhai ne

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Anonymous

We shouldn’t be like this you know

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Anonymous

Mai to shaadi bhi nahi karunga jis sai mere karan kisi ka jivan kharab ho agar shaadi krunga usse aur agar usse dukh hoga mere karan to isme meri galti hogi isliye nahi krunga

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Anonymous

Main bhi isilye shaadi nahi karna chahti
Par main yeh bhi nahi chahti ki main aise insaan ki wajah se zindagi bhar single rahun jissey mere nahi hone se kuch farak hi nahi padta

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Anonymous

Ye baat bhi sahi kaha aap ne

@_ocean_3

I was like you once… I used to think kisi se bhi shadi ho Jaye kya fark padta hai… But with time, I healed and now I know I will be the best life partner for the person I will marry. So don’t worry, you are a good human being, I am sure you will not hurt his/her sentiments and all these thoughts of yours will vanish with time.

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Anonymous

I hope it vanishes soon 🫂

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