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Anonymous

Yesterday I was in class and i was wearing a low cut top , in the middle of the lecture i noticed a guy looking at me then at my dress and then turning his head over and talking to his friend and he then pointed at his own chest then at me while talking and then after a couple of seconds they both start laughing , later on I noticed them talking to other guys too and they were all laughing but I can’t guarantee that it was about me but for me it sure felt like it , I was kinda disgusted and mad at that guy , now ik many of you are gonna be like “why wear a low cut top in the first place” see for those who’ll say such am gonna make it clear, we girls wear it cause we feel pretty in it and it’s the society that has made us feel like so , and second of all , I felt like it was safe to wear that top in my tution cause it’s literally my tution… Ik it sounds like I am making a huge deal out of this but if that guy would have just asked me to fix my top instead of talking to his friend about it , i would have appreciated that
This guys has been making comments about girls and how they dress and about them using makeup and stuff , it’s just so fucking disgusting that even some girls side with him , yesterday i literally felt like fucking kicking his balls off cause he doesn’t fucking deserve to be a man , am not judging all men here cause I have met many who LITERALLY would compliment me for the outfit without making it creepy and i even got one from my guy friend yesterday, why can’t all guys be like that , I was so fucking confident about the outfit and then during the lecture i just felt like hiding myself forever, at this point this is more like a vent and i don’t even care if someone reads it , cause I know it’s a big para but I feel better so if you read this here , thanks :)

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IDK @nile_2112

The only thing I wanna let you know is that you can do whatever you wanna do. Assholes are everywhere so just stop caring about them, just love yourself ❤️

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Anonymous

Just ignore those creepy one and do what you want to do & just go out answer them tooo 😉

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Anonymous

Peet kyu nhi di unko
Tuition k baad dhulaiii kar deti unki
Bloody gawarrr 's itna gussa aati hna aesi harkaton pa

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Anonymous

You can go and help her

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Anonymous

🙂 haa mai chli jaungii

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Anonymous

Sure about it…

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Anonymous

If she’ll ask for my help I’ll definitely go n help her achhe sa Peet k aati un gawaaro ko

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Anonymous

Or kya vaii

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Anonymous

Marr mat dena😅

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Anonymous

Toh kya unki aarti utaarungii

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Anonymous

Arrre mat sif pittai karna kahi jaan naa Lena unnke logo ki esa

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Anonymous

😂😂 nhi nhi

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Anonymous

Chalo acha hai khair hai usska

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Anonymous

Kya nai nai

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Anonymous

Upr pauchane k iraada toh nhi par sabak sikhane ka h aur aese log pit k hi smjhte hai

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Anonymous

Wo toh hai …

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@gelato_para_tu

I know what it feels like, can’t be in your place but have been in similar situations when you become a point of discussion or Target which is so unpleasant. I think you should confront this if possible. I know it becomes so hard to speak what we face with anyone, but it’s our life and we have all the rights to choose what we deserve. No one can treat you like you do not matter. Maybe not for them but there are people who look up to you. So if you want to take some action you can, or you can make peace with yourself by phasing them out of your attention. What only matters is what brings you peace. 💫

Anonymous

Heyy there is nothing wrong to wear a dress of ur choice, nd i also love deep neck tops nd we girls don’t wear anything or don’t get ready to seduce a guy or anyone, we wear it bcoz we feel pretty nd look there are positive as well as negative people out there, nd if someone is making fun of a girl or anyone’s dressing sense then that shows their class , so please don’t worry about what other thinks , nd if you felt that they were talking about you nd you didn’t like it then you should asked them like heyy bro is anything wrong? Simple nd if you don’t want to ask them that is also ok ignore them , but you know what, what is the best thing you could do in that situation is , if someone is laughing at you , laugh with them that makes them insecure about their own thoughts, nd the last thing I want to say that love yourself completely nd if you r confident about your dress then people’s opinion doesn’t matter.

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