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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Write one lesson ✍️ that you have learnt after getting into relationships…
(You can write even more than one).
Let’s see who writes the maximum.

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@meredith5_

The lesson I learn, and perhaps a big mistake of mine was telling Meredith directly about my feelings toward her

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Hmm… I understand as this is a human tendency of a person to not value a person who values him. Because the person starts taking us for granted.!!
Don’t worry, you deserve someone much better.!! And that day will come soon…💛

@meredith5_

I am a female, and Meredith is also a female. But she is much much older than me. I am a lesbian 

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Oh, ok ok. But no matter what this behaviour naturally to everyone and anyone. It depends that does the other person values you or not.

@meredith5_

To be honest, I have deep obsessions with Meredith 

@meredith5_

If you read my post, you will see that I always talk about Meredith 

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Yes. And it clearly tells that how much you love her.!!🥺🫶🏻✨
I understand your pain, dear soul.
Don’t worry I am always there to listen to you.

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Anonymous

Yes, it has really affected my life out in the real world outside of this app. 

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Anonymous

There has been a lot of misunderstanding, that resulted and the no contact order being placed between Meredith and I. I am so upset about that still 

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Hmm. I totally get your point. That’s why we say that clear communication is the key to a good relationship. But sometimes god creates such a situation in our lives that end up leaving that person, and we understand it later, that everything that happened, happened for good.

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Don’t worry, Time Heals Everything.

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Anonymous

1. Communication is everything
2. Without clarity, you can’t run together in the long run
3. Realistically, having solid feelings won’t suffice a relationship even if things are going well

A question - What do you say about relationships where everything is great in terms of the person, their values, knowing they want you, and being poller opposites they attract. Sometimes, the issue kicks in of should we try someone better maybe who are more aligned to our current priorities or grow together adapting to those priorities?

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

I understood your question. So if everything is going amazing in a relationship and still you feel like having a
relationship with someone else it means that you are missing that deep soul connection with your partner because when your solely connected with your partner then you accept him/her without putting any condition before them and judging them. And this is only called Love.
I hope you got some clarification.✨
Regards,
Harmanpreet K

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Anonymous

That is there and something I figured. Emotional bond can take ways and all other elements can be adapted or worked on. But, how can you make an emotionally unavailable person or someone who cannot be vulnerable that easily unless it’s in person talking, try to make the person towards the above path?

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Obviously that is not possible. But here again the question arises that why you would want such a person to bea a part of your life.?

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Anonymous

If I may ask, why it’s an impossible thing? Because surroundings and upbringing can be such that it’s understandable to be like the person I portrayed, especially in the case of a man. With the right person, I feel it can be improvised and neglecting all other aspects and breaking up for this one thing (I know the gravity of it in a relation) is idk, like giving up?

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

No it’s not that way, I mean to say that we have to see both sides of the coin. We cannot see only our upbringing, we have to see the other side too. Maybe that person has gone through some traumatic childhood experience or was emotionally betrayed in the past. Secondly, sometimes we subconsciously make a picture of a person in our mind and start expecting a lot from them, which eventually hurts us in the end.

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Anonymous

Yes, I agree. Might be the case. Thank you! ✨

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Welcome.!!✨

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TheAyanSangerTa... @ayansanger01

Being toxic is just a situation that might happen to anyone … instead of labelling oneself or the opposite person as toxic … understanding your partner and getting a proper hold of yourself might help a lot.

This is something that’s not talked about a lot. So thought it might be of help

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

That is why we say that self love is very important.

Shiv @freed_dom_76

Never trust blindly…

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

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