Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Hmm… I understand as this is a human tendency of a person to not value a person who values him. Because the person starts taking us for granted.!!
Don’t worry, you deserve someone much better.!! And that day will come soon…💛

I am a female, and Meredith is also a female. But she is much much older than me. I am a lesbian 

Oh, ok ok. But no matter what this behaviour naturally to everyone and anyone. It depends that does the other person values you or not.

To be honest, I have deep obsessions with Meredith 

Yes. And it clearly tells that how much you love her.!!🥺🫶🏻✨
I understand your pain, dear soul.
Don’t worry I am always there to listen to you.

Yes, it has really affected my life out in the real world outside of this app. 

There has been a lot of misunderstanding, that resulted and the no contact order being placed between Meredith and I. I am so upset about that still 

Hmm. I totally get your point. That’s why we say that clear communication is the key to a good relationship. But sometimes god creates such a situation in our lives that end up leaving that person, and we understand it later, that everything that happened, happened for good.

I understood your question. So if everything is going amazing in a relationship and still you feel like having a
relationship with someone else it means that you are missing that deep soul connection with your partner because when your solely connected with your partner then you accept him/her without putting any condition before them and judging them. And this is only called Love.
I hope you got some clarification.✨
Regards,
Harmanpreet K

That is there and something I figured. Emotional bond can take ways and all other elements can be adapted or worked on. But, how can you make an emotionally unavailable person or someone who cannot be vulnerable that easily unless it’s in person talking, try to make the person towards the above path?

Obviously that is not possible. But here again the question arises that why you would want such a person to bea a part of your life.?

If I may ask, why it’s an impossible thing? Because surroundings and upbringing can be such that it’s understandable to be like the person I portrayed, especially in the case of a man. With the right person, I feel it can be improvised and neglecting all other aspects and breaking up for this one thing (I know the gravity of it in a relation) is idk, like giving up?

No it’s not that way, I mean to say that we have to see both sides of the coin. We cannot see only our upbringing, we have to see the other side too. Maybe that person has gone through some traumatic childhood experience or was emotionally betrayed in the past. Secondly, sometimes we subconsciously make a picture of a person in our mind and start expecting a lot from them, which eventually hurts us in the end.

Yes, I agree. Might be the case. Thank you! ✨

Welcome.!!✨

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That is why we say that self love is very important.

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