Wishing for an impossible loveā¦being the best to achieve the impossible loveā¦falling head over heels in love with an impossible loveā¦feeling the anxiety,doubt,confusion about the impossible loveā¦the love which I canāt even convince myself of getting outā¦the one sided love where the other person doest even know you properlyā¦its a messā¦still canāt let go
Aarnavi21 @aarnavi21
The thing is Iāve met him only onceā¦before 6 yearsā¦and I fell in love with him 2 years agoā¦and I was very confused about thatā¦I didnāt know what was itā¦love/attraction/etc etc but now I realise Iāve feelings for himā¦Iāve deleted my insta acc 3-4 times and Iāve sent him follow requests 2 or 3 timesā¦the last time he didnt acceptā¦so I just ignored itā¦and let goā¦and now,before 2 days I sent him the follow request and guess what he followed me back and that was one of the happiest day of my lifeā¦it sounds weird but I was jumping and dancing with happinessā¦Iāve been in his hangover from past 3 daysā¦heās my distant relativeā¦and 5 years elder to meā¦Iāve been following his path subconsciously/unconsciously (idk,which one)ā¦I went to the same clg as hisā¦and chose the same field that he did(I entered that field not because of him,I was passionate about that since my 6th grade) The only thing is heās doing his PG now ig and Iāve just entered the courseā¦I sometimes feel that heās way out of my reachā¦because heās so good at everythingā¦heās an all-rounderā¦and Iām notā¦Iām not underestimating myself,Iām the best in my own waysā¦Iām so confused and anxious of everything about himā¦I donāt wanna confess to him and ruin thingsā¦like they say, if your love is true enough Iāll find itās way to you.Okay,I like him.But I donāt know what he feelsā¦its a whole lot mess deep in thereā¦
Thank you š
Saju Joseph @wiley
I understand the confusion and anxiety but why doubt ?
Idk if Iāll be able to be with himā¦cuz idk what he feelsā¦our worlds are completely diff.
Nahā¦not at all
Saju Joseph @wiley
Do you guys know eachother ?
Yes
Saju Joseph @wiley
Is he dating someone else ?
Donāt knowā¦no idea
Saju Joseph @wiley
I need a clarity, there was this story in your feed stating, someone met someone 6 years ago and fell for him 2 years back. Is that the story we are talking about ?
Yeah
Yes
Saju Joseph @wiley
What I find the problem is, forget about the things what he is good at or rather what he is. You are giving too much attention to the difference between you guys. Please stop that. Yes of course itās a reality, but right now, think of what are you because of him, what are all the good things happened to you because of him (may be indirectly). Think of how miscerably you love him. Think of the reasons why him ? Think of what you will be without him. Remember to write down all these things in a secret diary, it is important. You mentioned he is a distant relative, so it should be easy and tough at the same time to know any update. You will have to be sure about him, and about the romantic statement āif your love is true and pure, it will find a way to youā, this is not the first time the world is witnessing a true love. True love have seen success and also have failed. True love is only an individual perspective. It might be harsh, but what if he is also having a true love for someone else. Itās easy to say but living through it is much tougher. Better late than never. Remember, write it down, open your heart. Fix a date when and how you are going to express. Yes it will be tough, but you wonāt regret.
Because of him Iām getting better at certain thingsā¦
Your words are so comfortingā¦thanks a lot
Saju Joseph @wiley
Having said that, understand these melting of heart kind of things should be slow. If you increase your speed all at once, it might be scary for him. So donāt freak him out, donāt let him slip away. All the bestā¦
Yeahā¦thank you
