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Anonymous

Wishing for an impossible love…being the best to achieve the impossible love…falling head over heels in love with an impossible love…feeling the anxiety,doubt,confusion about the impossible love…the love which I can’t even convince myself of getting out…the one sided love where the other person doest even know you properly…its a mess…still can’t let go

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Aarnavi21 @aarnavi21

The thing is I’ve met him only once…before 6 years…and I fell in love with him 2 years ago…and I was very confused about that…I didn’t know what was it…love/attraction/etc etc but now I realise I’ve feelings for him…I’ve deleted my insta acc 3-4 times and I’ve sent him follow requests 2 or 3 times…the last time he didnt accept…so I just ignored it…and let go…and now,before 2 days I sent him the follow request and guess what he followed me back and that was one of the happiest day of my life…it sounds weird but I was jumping and dancing with happiness…I’ve been in his hangover from past 3 days…he’s my distant relative…and 5 years elder to me…I’ve been following his path subconsciously/unconsciously (idk,which one)…I went to the same clg as his…and chose the same field that he did(I entered that field not because of him,I was passionate about that since my 6th grade) The only thing is he’s doing his PG now ig and I’ve just entered the course…I sometimes feel that he’s way out of my reach…because he’s so good at everything…he’s an all-rounder…and I’m not…I’m not underestimating myself,I’m the best in my own ways…I’m so confused and anxious of everything about him…I don’t wanna confess to him and ruin things…like they say, if your love is true enough I’ll find it’s way to you.Okay,I like him.But I don’t know what he feels…its a whole lot mess deep in there…

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Anonymous

Thank you 😊

Saju Joseph @wiley

I understand the confusion and anxiety but why doubt ?

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Anonymous

Idk if I’ll be able to be with him…cuz idk what he feels…our worlds are completely diff.

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Anonymous

Nah…not at all

Saju Joseph @wiley

Do you guys know eachother ?

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Anonymous

Yes

Saju Joseph @wiley

Is he dating someone else ?

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Anonymous

Don’t know…no idea

Saju Joseph @wiley

I need a clarity, there was this story in your feed stating, someone met someone 6 years ago and fell for him 2 years back. Is that the story we are talking about ?

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Anonymous

Yeah

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Anonymous

Yes

Saju Joseph @wiley

What I find the problem is, forget about the things what he is good at or rather what he is. You are giving too much attention to the difference between you guys. Please stop that. Yes of course it’s a reality, but right now, think of what are you because of him, what are all the good things happened to you because of him (may be indirectly). Think of how miscerably you love him. Think of the reasons why him ? Think of what you will be without him. Remember to write down all these things in a secret diary, it is important. You mentioned he is a distant relative, so it should be easy and tough at the same time to know any update. You will have to be sure about him, and about the romantic statement “if your love is true and pure, it will find a way to you”, this is not the first time the world is witnessing a true love. True love have seen success and also have failed. True love is only an individual perspective. It might be harsh, but what if he is also having a true love for someone else. It’s easy to say but living through it is much tougher. Better late than never. Remember, write it down, open your heart. Fix a date when and how you are going to express. Yes it will be tough, but you won’t regret.

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Anonymous

Because of him I’m getting better at certain things…

Your words are so comforting…thanks a lot

Saju Joseph @wiley

Having said that, understand these melting of heart kind of things should be slow. If you increase your speed all at once, it might be scary for him. So don’t freak him out, don’t let him slip away. All the best…

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Anonymous

Yeah…thank you

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