Will be 29 soon. I still couldn’t find a partner for myself. Should I be worried?? Ppl around me asking to compromise in arranged marriage. I don’t know how this matrimonial shit works perfectly fine others but not me. I guess I have hard time digesting arranged marriage as a matter of fact about marriage itself. 

Are you a guy or a girl ??? And what are your requirements for a life partner that you will agree to marry in an arranged marriage  ??? Also what things are other telling you to compromise ????

I can feel you...in the exact same scenario

Anxiety

I want my life to be happy again like it was earlier

Breakup

🎶We've come too far
To give up who we are
So let's raise the bar
And our cups to the stars🎶

Music

My crush finally did something that will help me move on reason. It's been 4 years i was obsessing over him but now i finally got a reason to stop thinking about him. I am glad he did that 

3am Thoughts

Will my mental anguish ease if I hurt myself 

Depression

I think I can really never love anyone truly, and I think my parents relationship plays a major part in this. I dont like  to  believe love or marriages, friendship and forever stuff's. I believe that only you will be there for yourself and tats not really sad,I like it . I  mostly don't expect or depend on people . But there is this guy and he is my best friend and I really don't want to loose him, I haven't found anyone like him, I also don't want to do anything tat will ruin the best thing I ever have, like Im scared that I might shut him out with no clue .

Love

I KNOW  ITS  LONG  BUT  I  NEED HELP  TO UNDERSTAND  IT !!!!!
Few Years back  I  backstabbed my best friend.... I used to like him ... but he was in a relationship  with  my classmate  I was jealous  of  her ...  He used to share everything  with  me  For some reasons  he was  going  to end his relationship  with  her and she was depressed  and  sad. We all have common  friends  ....My friend  with whom  I  used to share everything  about  him spilled each and every  detail  I gave her about  him to everyone(Even the screenshots).... She made up such stories  as if we were dating..... His Girlfriend  got to know  all this stuff.... and she got furious .... My  friend she is such a bitch  told me that he is only using you ...after breakup he we date you , use you and dump u.... he never gave you proper recognition... he used to hide that you used to hangout  with you from his girlfriend.... she told me that he wants  me to be his dirty secret .....
Even  I got  instigated  and spilled  everything  to his girlfriend..... (They asked  me  to speak  in such  a  way that he was cheating  on  her and I was so frustrated and dumb that I spoke  everything  that  my friends  made me to speak....)
After  2 or 3 days  he decided  to  confront  me and ask me what was wrong  with  me  .... we were not alone  we were accompanied  by those 2 girl who brainwashed  me and his girlfriend...... Irony  was both the girls backed out and said they weren't  aware  of  anything  that  I spoke and made everyone believed that  I  spoke everything  on my own....... One of the girl supported  him iin front of him (day before  fight she was the one who spoke against  him  and wanted  to  drag his family  to this ) ...... N at the day of fight she made me a villan .... 
I was devastated  I wasn't  able  to  speak  anything  his girlfriend  yellled at me infact she asked  me to speak  the truth  otherwise  she would  slap me ... I wasn't in my sense  wtf i was speaking......
I potrayed my best friend  as characterless .....
After that I left with one friend with whom I used to share everything  even she was shocked to see that the bitch who instigated  me  was the one who was trying  to  make everything  alright  between  him and his  girlfriend  .... N now he and his  girlfriend  are friends  everyone  and everything  is  same  That bitch  is still thier friend...N only I am the one who is villan  for him.....
I have never  cried  in front  of anyone  but that day on my way to home I was crying sitting  on  a footpath  with my friend.........
I STILL CAN'T  GET OVER IT!!!!!
I WANT  TO APOLOGIES BUT HE HATES ME !!!!
N I HAVE NO GUTS LEFT  TO  CONFRONT  HIM ...
LIKE IT HAS BEEN 2 YEARS NOW BUT STILL I WANT TO APOLOGIES....BUT WHENEVER  I SEE 

HIM AND TALK  ABOUT  HIM I FEEL  VULNERABLE LIKE THAT DAY WHEN WE HAD FIGHT!!!!!!
Please Help  me  what should  I  do  now....
PLEASE  HELP ME HOW TO MOVE ON  FROM THIS 

Anybody here


Anyone up for a walk and talk about life at marine drive this evening?

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