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Why some guys not even listen something or advice from women And always act like I’m the only that smartest I don’t need any advice from women

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It’s called misogyny.

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Anonymous

Misogynist lol

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Anonymous

Hahaha like i give my advice about his work and he just get mad and says something that “Don’t try to teach me or lecture me cause i know this much better than you” And i just said that i said from my opinion to let he see how he can make better than this save the time and be benefit for him. And he go away get out of my office

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Anonymous

Guys don’t like advice frm anyone which comes without asking

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Anonymous

But he came to my office to check his work like i don’t know i just said as my view as the problems that i can see from his work that’s it I don’t want to use my position to manipulate him. but i have the right I say cause it’s my job and I’m his head

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Anonymous

That is true but not only guys its about everyone , but there are ppl who thinks they are doing right , and they don’t need any advice , if they do they will ask , if it turns wrong they will realised so don’t worry

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Anonymous

Thanks a lot cause i have been working here for 4 years And i never met kind of people like this I don’t mind if he have own thoughts but i just give it as my duty and he will listen to me or not i don’t care but why have to get upset haha and be rude with me And i accept if he have a better way

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Anonymous

I understand but why u want to correct? If it’s related to u or company also then may be u should try but if it’s related to that guy only. I think u should leave it

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Anonymous

Actually i told him that his work need to fix And i give an advice to guide that hiw he can fix it And he hets upset blame me i do like this with everyone as equal
equality if your it have no any problems okay you can keep continue although i give him pass His work will be returned cause there is an error

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Anonymous

Great u did nice , but let him fall In pit then he will understand your value

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Anonymous

Normally men don’t like it …but if you’re his boss and he needed help idk what to say then

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Anonymous

You’re not in fault here but i guess you should stop giving him any advice or suggestions unless he asks…or if you really wanna help him thn regarding the situation you need to ask him question…the type of question that while answering he will figure it out himself…its like your just poking him in the right direction instead of pushinh him…and regardless of gender, people feel important when the idea originated from them…if u have an idea and its the only logical one still some people will find it difficult to apply them bcz they will feel like a cheat to just use your idea…

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Anonymous

Probably like that but i try to open up anyway thanks a lot i just feel not okay about that Cause for anyone they will talk with me and exchange our thoughts for the best way

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Anonymous

Not always true … i always put my opinion to my girl but left the final decision to her like “its not good yaar to hang out with guys who like you and have proposed you multiple times… please stop calling them ur bffs they are there for a reason” … but she always turned me down saying i am insecure.

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Anonymous

What i want its exchange our opinions for the best way to fix. It call brainstorming

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Anonymous

If u want to stay … just calmly tell him that every human is different. And if we pick our past everytime. It will always be toxic . Cos everyone makes mistakes and learn and make changes with it . But if you keep picking that old behaviour i will never be able to change that mistake from my past. As u grow old we change as human. Experience changes and everyday we need to adopt to this fast changing world. So we do need to support each other.

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Anonymous

i didn’t get mad at him i talk as normal as i talk with another one and i and i will never do like that I just wonder did i do something wrong

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Anonymous

In my opinion… if u have any advice to give always ask it before. Like tell him “can i give u advice”

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Anonymous

But don’t forget he came to my office to let’s me re-check his work yeah and i told have some mistakes and give te advice to guide him. Anyway thanks for your opinion i will try to do like that with him in the next time it might be work

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What work you do

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Anonymous

About engineering

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Kinda attractive ngl

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Anonymous

This is true… Happens with me as well let the guy know what we feel like let him know through our prospective… I always tell that what if I was in your shoes and you in mine and i reacted just the way you reacted… He will maybe understand

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Anonymous

I’m sorry to hear from you but it’s really make me feel bad cuz i do it cuz my duty and never try to control or lecture whoever i say it as my view as what i see about the problems And okay if yiu have a better we can talk we can exchange I’m open up i don’t manage that you have to do like this this or this cuz have some mistake happened it could destroy his career and our company too. Probably he thought he older than me also that’s why he don’t want me to give him an advice and maybe forget that too he came and ask for help need me to re-check. However thanks for your thoughts

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