Why is it that I always end up being the one giving a lot than getting anything?
Why can’t someone be obsessed with me, give me the same efforts I give them?
Always pisses me off for doing things more than I ever get!
Wish there was a way to stop giving a fuck for small things lol
suraj kumar @008sr
Hey relax!! You shouldn’t expect anything from anyone!! It always hurt
How do I not even expect ? Why is it a bad thing to expect something
suraj kumar @008sr
Its not bad but its better to not expect because this world is so cruel and selfish!
Yet we try to live through those small things by expecting what we want!!!
I wish its easy to just move on from people who just dont give u back the same energy as you give them
suraj kumar @008sr
Of course you should!!
I understand. I come from the same place. Giving more and receiving less. It sucks big time!!! But people are shitty. There’s literally no point putting efforts for anyone. It takes time but you’ll start giving alot less fucks about everyone after a point. Always try to prioritise yourself over everyone else.
Thanks bro, that really is right whatever you said!!
Take care. Take less shit.
Its normal to feel that way because some people dont set boundaries when they help others or feel for others. You need to know that everyone haa limited time and efforts, take it as a leaening lesson to be available for only those who matter. Also if somebody doesnt reflect the same energy you should slowly get away from them
We are only humans, sweetheart, we are not perfect, we give f#*k to small things because we have feelings and thats what makes us human at the end of the day.
Maybe you are putting efforts for the wrong people thats why you are not getting them back but as we have heard life isn’t a bed of roses, we go through thorns to reach the soft petals. And the same way we have to go through some wrong people to reach the right ones, the better ones.
Right time is yet to come, just brrathe through this and try to make yourself less available for people who donot appreciate your efforts because eventually somebody will and as you say ‘become obsessed’ with you, just at the right time.
Good luck❤
I also agree. I’m talking to someone going through a tough time, and I’ve put aside so much energy to try to keep them happy, and during this time I’ve asked for a quick talk to sort our feelings out and they said no. I put a month of energy into someone who couldn’t put aside 10 mins of energy. Yeah, they’re upset, but I am too. What I was asking would’ve made me happy and I told them that. A 10 min chat. That’s all I wanted. And they said no. How do I talk to them so that I can sort my feelings out if they won’t let me?
