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Anonymous

Why is it so hard to let someone go?

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Anonymous

Exactly :)

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Sunny Seth @sunny04

Well, you can choose to let go of the person but not the feelings you have for them. They individually are just normal persons and it’s just you who makes them special, so letting you go makes them lose their speciality. All you need to do is love whatever you’ve had with them and be gentle to yourself. All the best buddy

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Anonymous

Thank you buddy :)

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Anonymous

Trust me after letting go you feel alive again i know its hard sleep on it cry if you want then all of a sudden you gonna relise there existence does jot bother you anymore and nu friend that feeling is worth it

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Anonymous

I’m trying so hard for a long time but still feels impossible but i know i have to be patient. Thank you :)

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Anonymous

You know 2 days ago my 6 year long relationship bf got married with another women and i m seeing pictures on Instagram ( i stalk him) he didn’t even breakup with me he just stop calling…is your situation is as bad as mine? But i cry a lot now when i saw there engegment picture i cry i cry everytime i cry then i saw the wedding pic I don’t feel nothing now so for me crying helps

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Anonymous

After listening to this, my heart is breaking for you and I can’t even imagine what you are going through. Marrying someone else while you are committed to someone is huge thing. At least he could have respected you and told you. I’m sorry and i hope god give you the strength to overcome this 🙇🏻‍♀️ mine is not as bad as this but i loved him with everything, he chose another girl over me because i was being possessive and because of this he proposed the other girl to hurt me. I saw pictures and video of them kissing each other and it broke my heart into trillion pieces. I never loved anyone so much and he knew that this is going to hurt me that’s why he did this. And still i love him but I’m trying to let him go because I’m just hurting myself. And i hope the same for you- that you get over him and you meet someone one day (when you are ready) and that person is going to love you more than you can imagine <3
Here’s a hug for you 🫂. You are very strong! May god give you all the happiness :)

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Anonymous

Hey girl i can understand your pain but the guy knowingly give you pain like proposing kissing and all then like hell with them there loss

Let’s pray together in cardi B’s style. " Wish you well (in hell ) "

Wish you found a friend who can never in his wildest dreams thought of hurting you wish you a happy life ahead

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@daisy22

The process is long and really tough. One day you feel like you forgot him totally and another day you will find yourself missing him. All you need patience. It becomes really tough because of memories you have with person. We emotionally depend on them and when we cut the ties that emotional suport flies away with them and that’s something make it really tough for us. don’t pressure yourself too much. Trust the process while giving efforts. One day things will be alright and you’ll look into past and your process and you’ll feel proud on yourself. This journey will make you very strong and will bring peace in life. I wish you all the luck ✨

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Anonymous

You are absolutely right. Thank you so much i really needed to hear this :) god bless your kind heart <3

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