Why I suddenly feel like my long distance bf is talking with someone else. Once some.days back I told him like this and he got very hurt and said he tells me everything and still I dont trust. Then, some dahs passed good. But now again why I get strong feeling again. Whenever I call, his call is busy, he does not do long conversations now remain busy in work says, his loving msgs and all seems not genuine from heart. 

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sudhanshi dubey

Aditya Sahu 

I am confused. I have to nothing to say strongly. So cant again tell him straightway. What shoudl I do

Trust him but don't keep expectations from him....if u ask him directly he might lie or tell truth but u won't get to know so don't think more about that and enjoy ur life do what u want to do till he comes back 

Boyfriend

here's why I think all he cares about is tits. he asked me to show my titties but I declined. he is a very persistant person he said titties are his weakness. so eventually I showed him one tit. we use to send each other kissing gifs he use to send me cuddling gifs. but everytime I send a cuddling gif  he doesn't send one back. over text I ask him to kiss me he does. but if I don't ask him he doesn't  I'm confused as to what we are. he sent a sticker on snap chat saying I love you. I told him I don't love you he said ok. then sent another one then he sent a sticker saying I  like like you. then he said I was his friend. I said I'm confused do you love me , like like me or are you my best friend?  he said guess I said best friend he said Ok. he said your with me sexually.  he said happy international friendship day which was saturday July 30th.  he sent a sticker saying friends forever he was acting as if we're friends when I never confirmed it. I thought oh we're friends now because  we weren't acting like friends before. I was sending him photos and videos of myself half naked.

Confusion

My boyfriend’s gone back home for the holidays while I’m still here at uni- it feels as though I’m the only one putting in efforts to maintain what we have :(
I get that a relationship doesn’t have to be 50-50 all the time and sometimes one person has to put some more effort in; but it feels like I’m the only one putting in effort these days?

I’ve been having dreams of him getting back with his ex which makes my intrusive thoughts worse.

I’m thinking of not texting him or calling him until he does so first? But at the same time I’m so scared of being toxic to him..

Should I bring this up to him? That I feel like he should be putting in more effort?? Or should I tell him that I’ve been having dreams about him and his ex??

He does check up on me on text though but I’m always the one calling him and it makes me feel like I’m annoying him even though he tells me I’m not.

Does anyone have any advice??


Anxiety

so i liked this guy and he asked me out but i rejected him because i felt he didn’t like me and i deserved better than a person who was just dating me for the heck of it. when i rejected him he just said ‘okay’. i was literally in tears and then i ghosted him for 3 months to get over him. i finally started texting him back since a week because i felt bad that i did that. do y’all think i should text him because i feel my feelings might be coming 

3am Thoughts

I am not happy with the relationship I’m having with my mom right now. I am having a hard time working on this strained relationship that we are having, and it’s been since months now. Ever since I’ve opened up about my boyfriend and I want to marry him. She hasn’t taken it well and I get to hear taunts, and mean statements just because he’s not from our caste. 
Until yesterday when the news was not broken to her, I was like her perfect daughter 
But now I’m zero for choosing a guy out of the caste. I feel very very terrible dealing with this 

Family

Hello everyone 
I was in a relationship the boy never treated me right although he did tell me that there won't be any future for us and he broke his promises so many times,  but as  we broke up  for good even though he hurt me so bad I am not mad at him anymore .I want to talk to him again but don't want to be in a relationship with him I know we were not good match for each other .But I still think he is a good person even though he was not a good boyfriend.I want to talk to him and be friends with him .I even forgot all the things he did to me is there something wrong with me ? Should I be angry with him .I don't understand what should I do .

Breakup

I went through a breakup 2 months ago. It had become quite toxic. But i kept going. My boyfriend was very insecure and jealous. I tried my best to calm his insecurities and kept giving him assurance that I won’t leave. It only kept piling up. He would never accept his mistakes and would play the victim card. He asked me to cut off some of my friends. He used to keep checking my phone. We were together for a year but he had no trust. There came a point when I got tired. I said no to him for once and he broke up. He played the victim card again. Instead of apologizing, he blamed me for cheating on him. He never made an effort to mend it or come back. He posted shit about me on social media as well. It’s been 2 months since all this happened but I’m not able to get over it. I tried everything but i wake up with anxiety and fear. 

#5..........Days went by or maybe weeks I didn't really keep a track of it. But all the while I felt very confused. I was talking to the guy (let's name him Mr. X) with the face of another. Though I stopped talking to Mr. X but I kept looking at those pictures and couldn't get them out of my head. Gradually I became curious to know who the guy was in those pictures ? What's his name ? How his voice sounds like ? Personally I'm someone who kinda gets attracted to men who have a nice voice. So I like any other girl with her expert FBI skills went on a hunt for this man. And yep...after a day or two I indeed found him out. Now that I found him and also know his name (Let's say Mr. A)  I was again stuck at the question - How do I approach him ? Being a introvert girl, approaching or initiating a conversation with a guy gives me severe anxiety. I backed off a bit just to think. Millions of thoughts ran through my mind but I couldn't gather the courage to approach him. One night, I was overthinking as usual over this matter and within an impulse I sent him a follow request on Instagram and just thought to myself that I'll initiate conversation later, first I need to atleast be on his following list and get a glimpse of what kinda guy he is from his activities..........(to be continued) 



Yes I love my best friend there was a tym I really wanted to kiss him but now when things are going in the direction I wanted it doesn't feel good . I love him I care for him I want to be him and I am even ready to spend my lyf with him but as friend I don't feel that this relationship will work in future . I somehow think that there is a Loop hole and we will fall in that . Every thing is gonna end . Today or after 1 year but it will . The impact will be cured in less tym we I say no but it will take tym if I say yes . I want to be with him but as friends . 

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