Why I falll for every girl whose nails are long and beautiful? 😭😭

I go crazy whenever I meet a girl with beautiful nails 💔

Nothing much 🙂 but I go crazy for long nails I don’t know why 

😩😫my nails easily get broken 🙂😭✨

Nd the girls who have short nails 😭✋✨😂

Addiction

Feeling dull and lost  confusion,anxiety,depression, family pressure and what not

Career

“I’ll be taking flowers to the cemetery of my heart…” 
-Strangers By Nature, Adele 

Music

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3am Thoughts

I'm turning 25 this May 11th.

So, here are 20 pieces of relationship advice for the younger ones, especially for boys:

1. Never get attached to anyone too deeply, putting you in a situation where you can't live without them. Practice healthy detachment.

2. Never think, "Mine is not like others, it's different." No bro, don't draw conclusions until they prove so.

3. Keep it private until it becomes permanent. There's no need to show off on socials about your relationships. Just keep it private. In this era of situationships, at least you can escape from answering everything if you break up.

4. Reels and real life are entirely different. Some people live in an imaginary world where they consume sweet boy reels, where the boy wakes the girl up with a bouquet of flowers, and does all those reel things. In real life, is it possible to wake you up every day with flowers? And girl, if you commit to someone with these reel expectations, it will cause a lot of problems in the future.

5. No one is permanent. Consider everyone as temporary. And if anyone becomes your permanent, that's good. This will save you from future heartbreaks.

6. Actions speak louder than words. Don't believe the words, don't fall for words, observe the action.

7. Nobody is too busy in this world. It will take just 10 seconds to update you and communicate, "Hey, I'll be busy today." It's called maturity.

8. Don't be a 'Bestie' of any girl who is in a relationship. Their partner should be their best friend, and you shouldn't intervene. Imagine you are in a relationship and there is a bestie in between. Do you like that? Some things should be between partners only; there's no need for any besties in between. Being friends and being bestie, both are different bro. Don't ruin any bonds.

9. If somebody ignores you, ask them. Try three times, wait. If they ignore you again, block and vanish. Don't beg, don't try to act needy, just leave. Not easy, but you should do. This can reduce the impact of your heartbreak by 30-40%. At least you can be proud that you didn't sell your self-respect. If you go, beg, and stalk, it will not make any change, just make things worse.

10. Cheating is not a mistake, it's a choice they chose.

11. Never cheat anyone. Attachment is not a joke bro. Mentally, it will break you down, and sometimes, physically too. Today or tomorrow, you will face its karma. So please, don't give false hopes or promises to a person and don't hurt them.

12. Be kind to everyone. If you have past traumas, heal them. Just because you suffered a lot in the past, are you going to be like that person who hurt you in the past? Never do that. If you do that with another person and play the victim card like: "It's because of my past trauma, bro," you failed as a man. You belong to the street. A hunter can't play the victim card to the prey, claiming that he was hungry. After getting betrayed, you have two options. First one is:  Play victim card, and become a worst human, hurt another good soul, second one is: I shouldnt be like that worst human, be more kind and more loyal. Learn from that worst human, how you shouldnt be.

13. Relationships are your own privacy. Never discuss your relationship with anyone. I've seen people who discuss intimate moments with their partners to friends. What the hell is it, bro? It's like objectifying the partner. Again, don't be like someone who belongs to the street.

14. Never hurt your parents.

15. Men are the most misunderstood living form that has ever existed. Don't expect kindness or love from others. Don't think, "Why is it happening to me only?" No, it's not like that, many have gone through it. Accept that you have only yourself to pick you up.

16. There is no shame in accepting that you are broken, sad, and in depression. Sit in the room, cry privately, seek professional help if needed.

17. You can heal, you can move on, even if you feel you can't. A living example is the writer of this post.

18. Be sober.

19. Having multiple relationships is not a mass or heroic thing. It shows how much worse a human you are.

20. Be loyal, you don't need a bestie. Your partner is your best friend.

While reading some of the points, you may feel like, "Oh, is it?" Come back and read after a lesson, you will get it.

I'm losing myself over a class presentation. I'm sooo anxious. my hands and feet are like ice my stomach aches my skin disease has been flaring for a week I can't sleep and I'm feeling really panicked my present at is for tomorrow and it's a 2 person thingy so I asked my partner if she sent out the script to the teacher but she doesn't answer probably asleep bc it 3 am and I'm losing it. I feel so pathetic getting this stressed about a mere presentation for 2 minutes that will be online and only give me extra 15 points. it's basically nothing. but here I am about to cry over it and stay up all night. I don't want to re-start my anxiety medication I thought it was done. I was fine for a year but a little presentation that's literally ONLINE is enough to push me over. I won't even have to see my class or walk up to the teacher. I'll just sit and read my part for 2 minutes and I'm free. I know it but my body and a part of my brain doesn't. it's not like the teacher is mean too she's really nice and even if I mess up or if we send the script after presentation she'd still give full 15 points. all these good and easy things but my hearth is beating like crazy. I feel like I'm gonna get excuted or something when all I'll do is to sit in my room and speak for 2 minutes. 

Anxiety

I am so damn lonely, I don't have any good friends that I could spend an awesome holiday with or talk with happily. I'm just so lonely, insecure, tired of all this and at this point I feel like I am stuck in a place where I should just give up. What do I do? 

Mental Wellbeing

I actually had a really good day today :) the guy I've liked for awhile now has been talking to me a lot more recently and we share a cooking class together and he let me be the first one to try what he made and he even helped me finish the dishes when my group wouldn't help. (Sorry I use and a lot I just can't think of anything else to use but yeah I just wanted to have a reminder of something that made me happy :))

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