Why doesn't my father understand I need them . When I say u don't listen to me why does he not accept and blames and throws everything on me . I want someone to hold me and hug me tight and say everything is going to be alright . Why doesn't he understand . I m not in a good place .

My dad is the worst person I know. The scum of the earth kind. He is an abusive man who does not deserve a wife or kids. I am torn between showing him his place or not bursting his bubble and letting him live out his remaining years. 


Family

My father talks to me in a humiliating tone and exoects me to keep on listening to him afterwards. Today he was lecturing me about something and called me stupid.. What was I supposed to do? Continue to listen to him respectfully after being called stupid on my face?? I'm sorry but I cannot stand this. I'm 23 years old and also a girl. Are other girls or my age are also treated this way by their fathers? 

Parenting

I don't like my father.. He loves me but his love feels like a favour. I just can't talk to him. He wants to talk but I can't. Idk why may be because of his behavior towards others or his thinking idk what it is.  I just don't like him at all. Am I being unfair? 

3am Thoughts

I literally got to know tht my both parents are cheating on each other like mom is have an affair with someone and even my dad also.
My dad's affair is known like few members know it but my mom's no one knows she kept it secret about it but i got to know by mistake. Once my mom did the pregnancy test but she didn't tell anyone abt it. She kept it so secretly when she used to go out my family members they never asked her anything. When she used to come as if nothing has happened. Thn i discovered my mom call record with tht guy tell abt satisfaction,happiness and all the things related to sex. Tht guy is the one whom i know and he does also have a wife who is national awardee as the best teacher. when no one is house tht guy come over. Many times when i had holidays and my mom ised send me out so far away tht i shouldn't come home for at least for 1 or 2 hour like sometimes she used send me to his house for getting so things because our family and his has good relationship.Many times even my mom went his house also.
When i come to my dad he is having affair from past more thn 10 years and they had gone to beaches and pubs and everywhere even he bought the lady home whn no one was there.
I am in a dilemma tht who is correct in the family...???🤔🤔

Cheating

I need help and opinions plz. So my dad has been getting really mad and starts yelling at me for no reason. Every time I talk to him he sounds really annoyed with me and I can’t even smile around him anymore because I’m worried that he’s just gonna shut me down. I am 18 and I still live with them and I help around the house for them and I just get yelled at. I don’t know why he is doing this because I use to just talk to him and have a good conversation and now nothing anymore. What should I do ?

Heya!!
Okay so I'm not really a sensitive person but nowadays when someone yells at me I start crying and can't stop. Even if someone mocks me in fun I still don't like it but I never say it out loud. 
Nowadays my father's teaching me how to drive car and as I started only a week ago I'm not very good at it, duh. My father kept yelling at me for small things like *you are an idiot or stupid* and *you don't know anything* etc. I felt really bad like REALLY BAD and when I told him that I don't wanna learn from him so he was like *good I won't teach you from tomorrow onwards* . I mean he loves me obviously but he's sometimes rude and he doesn't realise that him yelling at me affects me so much. I get it that he was worried that I might hit something with car and get hurt but there's a way a person should say it right? I literally just spent like 30 minutes crying and now I'm writing my problem here.
I just don't know what to do or *how to handle my emotions*.
 

Teenagers

My dad is cheated on my mom . I don't know what to do. I guess everything is fucked up 

Breakup

Here's the case, I was supposed to be doing MBBS, but am doing B.Sc Biotechnology now. But even in this, I have excelled by landing a national internship and have published a paper, on the road to a 2nd one. I am aiming for a Masters's out of the country, which will be feasible and quite affordable. Now the issue is this lockdown, it's driving people crazy, especially for those who are already in a depression, like my father. We own a restaurant and it's open in the morning but he does not go, then he is home all day long doing nothing but playing on the phone. He is resting all day long on the bed, and orders us around because he can and then if we do one thing wrong he'll literally shout at us for a small mistake, which then makes my mom angry and even me because we think shouting for such a small mistake is not done. I plan to get out of this house as soon as I can, but I am worried about my mother and brother who will have to suffer him, which I feel is not right but then once i am independant, I can individually support my brother and mother, and this is what keeps me going on. The thing is my father has no sense of responsibility, does not care about the finances and only and only cares about his mother my grandmother, which spoils her rotten and then she orders us around. It's simple, my father who has a upper hand in the house is sick and is supported by my grandma even when he is wrong and we children are scared because he's our father, right. And he does not even wants to listen to reason. 

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