Why doesn't my father understand I need them . When I say u don't listen to me why does he not accept and blames and throws everything on me . I want someone to hold me and hug me tight and say everything is going to be alright . Why doesn't he understand . I m not in a good place .

What would you do if you come to know that your parent is cheating on his/her partner? I mean of you find your mom cheating on your dad or vice versa? Talking is not a solution. It happens every time and no doors are opened! It's the same always!

Parenting

I'm tired of my dad telling me to kms

Family

This household isn’t for people who want to thrive in life - you try do something good & automatically get shut down because it’s not “the way dad likes it” 


3am Thoughts

I don't like my father.. He loves me but his love feels like a favour. I just can't talk to him. He wants to talk but I can't. Idk why may be because of his behavior towards others or his thinking idk what it is.  I just don't like him at all. Am I being unfair? 

Every person at some point feels very low, no matter how strong they think they are. But, recently I observed that our fathers are not like that. They don't show how much pain they are going through or how sad they are. A lot of things happened during this covid period but yet he seemed strong. He broke at one point that's because of our (children's) mistake. It made me realize how much he does for us. He doesn't but anything for himself, we always ask about our things. I don't have a job as am pursuing higher studies, I made a promise that whatever happens, I will always take care of him in all situations. As a daughter, I wanna buy him things that he needs, make him happy.

I live in a typical brown middle class family and I am the only daughter of my parents. I am so much hated because I'm a girl by my entire family I've always been a good daughter, good at my grades in school. I am doing MBBS right now which means I'll become a doctor in a few years. But I am still underestimated by my family just because I'm a woman. I'm a feminist I want equality and it kills me when I see so much patriarchy in my own family. My dad earns my mom earns too but whenever she has to do something she wants she has to take his permission. He cannot get up to take a glass of water himself and he thinks its our duty to do so, it does not matter whether I'm studying or doing something important I have to get up and bring him that glass of water or make him tea. Yesterday there was some problem in the kitchen and it got late to make his tea he yelled and shouted at me and my mom that I can't even have my Tea on time. Today he says to me that all this is happening because he has given us too much freedom and says shoes are supposed to be kept on its place. I felt so bad it broke my heart. I have no respect left for him. I just talk to him because I'm financially dependent on him and I have to make a career. All these years have not been easy for me when I'm trying  so hard to become a doctor, I'm in my 3rd year now and this is the kind of support I get from my own family where I'm told that I'm a piece of shit and I feel so bad that I cannot do anything about it except of just sitting and crying

hi guys,
i feel so stuck at the moment. my mum is with a guy that constantly drinks and when he does he gets mean and passes out on the couch. my mum always defends him and says "he has a lot on his plate right now " or " he hasn't been drinking as much" they fight all the time even when she denies it. his been a complete a**hole to me the whole time I've known him, he called me horrible names and said things like "you wonder why your dad doesn't want you" i never got an apology instead i got yelled at for showing attitude back to him after he said those things and he never got in trouble. every time he drinks it takes a massive toll on me and i sometimes i need to just talk to someone about it rather than bottling it up . my mum told me "if you say anything to anyone i will be VERY mad " and "i wouldn't tell anyone about your business " so i cant talk to no one about it and especially her as she always gets defensive and I'm always the bad guy in the end. Every time me and him get into a fight they always use things against me such as "his good enough when he can buy you things" .its such a toxic household and i feel so trapped.

Emotional Abuse

I hate him. I fking hate the man who have birth to me. I hate him for not being the dad every daughter needs. He is my father but never was a dad. Sometimes i wish he wasn't there in my life. I wish how it would turn out to be. He doesn't beat me or scold me no, but yet i never could love him or never felt loved. He just keeps getting worse. And idk what to do. I can't stand him. I don't want him in our lives but i tolerate it for my mom. In the same way my mom does for her children. In the time when girls crave a life partner they pray for having the best husband, i pray to atleast have a dad next life. Am i wrong if i hate him? 

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