Why doesn't husband behave as words spoken by him instead he insist the conversation didn't happen..... 

Emotional Abuse

Hi !!! My husband lost his mom when he was a small kid . So he's living with his dad and his younger brother. His dad was so committed in looking after his small kids that he never bothered on getting married again. He looked them after so well that he tried everything that's possible for him to give everything to those boys to have a perfect life. But now these boys have grown up and I don't think they're treating their dad well , especially my husband. By not treating well what I meant is , they still think they are small kids, because whenever their father is not able to do something which he used to do for them they speak out without even thinking how he would feel about it. Like for example, something like Cooking, when they don't get what they wanted they say it to his face and make him feel bad about it . Seeing this as a third person, I couldn't bear it . I tried talking to my husband, but he doesn't realise what he's doing is wrong. I don't know what else am I supposed to do. I'm trying my best to support my father-in-law every way possible. But I'm totally confused on how to make them understand about what they're doing is wrong . If somebody could help me with this, I would really appreciate that . 

Anger Issues

Hi, I'm indhu . Before 3 months I get married.we are not happy in marriage life .. I don't why I can't accept him...few days before I found he is in love with someone. now I'm in depression from when I knew truth about his cheating.. many time I tried to do suicide.. I can't overcome from that ..



Depression

Anyone into law , i would like to discuss things about my divorce .

3am Thoughts

I feel like crap I do so much for my man i spend every coin I have on him I do whatever he wants I never ask for nothin in return and I still get yelled at and broke down I love him so freakin much but he’s slowly draining me I never get to do what I wanna do he’s never spent a dime on me and I always just shut my mouth cuz I’m the end it’s my fault 

Boyfriend

The amount of times I got gaslighted by my mother in law about my feelings. My friend and my spouse. I should’ve been win the lottery. Things hit me when I get alone. And it just replays in my mind. I just notice I’m not happy in my relationship anymore. There’s no growth and no warmth. I don’t know what to do wether break up or let the relationship crumble. I want to tell him things how I truly feel. Especially about his mother I hate her so much. I’m not Happy. Anymore. Wearing a promise ring now is just an accesssory to my everyday outfit. 💔💔

I hate my in-laws

Other

I feel like I am stuck in a toxic relationship from which I have not been able to get out. Is it only me who thinks this way or is it for real? I earn money and provide him with money whenever he's in need. I never ask it back. Even if I do, he just shrugs it away with "Can't you do that much for me?"  And it's not some petty cash he borrows from me. He asks for huge amounts but never returns it back. He asked me to buy a scooter from my own money in his company's name. What am I to say? This is not the first case where I feel like I am being taken advantage of.
The fortune teller told us that I have a very good husband written on my fate and I should respect him. I am supposed to have a very fortunate married life. But I think, all my husband does is take advantage of me. Whenever he needs something from me, he becomes soft towards me. But whenever he gets into trouble or something unfortunate happens to him, he blames everything on me. He used to tell me that I am not a good wife as per the ancient scritpures. A good woman/ wife needs to take care of her husband, her husband's family, do all household chores and not complain. However, a husband/ man does not have to take responsibility of anything. He does not even fold his own clothes. I have to do that for him or else he will shout at me. He just likes giving advices and lectures to everyone. He does not accept his fault in anyway. Even though we both work, after I come home, I have to do all the household chores. But he does not have to do anything as he is a man and he is tired.
I am tired of living like this but still cannot gather enough courage to leave him. My mom, his mom wants me to have a baby. For a while, I also wanted to have a baby but I don't know if I really wanted it on my own or just thought I wanted it because everyone was telling me to have one. I am not sure whether I will be happy having a child with him. 
I am afraid to ask him for any kind of help because later on he will just act as if he has done a great favour for me and I have to be grateful for that. But is he grateful in return? 

Relationships

You know how they say, "Those who can't do, teach".

But nobody tells you that, those who teach, were being taught once.

My point is, there will always bhi someone looking out for you.

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