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Anonymous

Why does it feel that only having a guy in life can remove the loneliness :( and happiness means dating someone 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous

Maybe because you don’t understand the value of yourself. It’s basically like…when we don’t love ourselves enough , we seek validation and attention which are basically given by guys or even girls. But that isn’t forever, the only lifetime validation is what u get from yourself. Stop thinking that you always need to be with someone to feel loved. Learn to be okay by yourself. Love you some you. Fill in the void in you. Affirm that you don’t chase, you attract and what’s meant to be yours will find you. Simple.

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Anonymous

So true mahnn :((

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:D @pratio

I loved this answer especially the line “you don’t chase, you attract”

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Anonymous

Yes me too❤️

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Anonymous

Because we are at that age where we crave for human affection and love. So thats normal

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Anonymous

Exactly, I feel so insecure abt myself and I feel that security will only come when I get the validation and love from a guy, that is the only thought that comes to me

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Anonymous

Yeah , I can relate and I feel the same . We all want someone who appreciates and support us for just the way we are, and we can be our true selves with them and they dont judge us but we shouldn’t forget the fact unless and until we accept ourselves the way we are , no one will. And how the world has become this days , I dont think finding such a person is gonna be easy , so until then be your own supporter.

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Anonymous

Even I’m going through the same. I don’t know whether is normal behaviour or not.
But I think when you are so alone and lonely and your inner you want human affection and love and emotional support these feelings appear automatically. And this gap can only be filled by another person.

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Anonymous

Yess🙌🏽

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Anonymous

I could have proposed to you. But we aren’t in the same city.
What would be the point of a relationship when neither I can hold your hands nor hug you :)

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Anonymous

Actually yeah🥺🥺

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Validation, friendship and love are all different things. We often confuse and combine them. For validation you don’t need any one. Its you who need to look inward. Friendship is a many things but at core you need a friend to cry, to fly with your happiness above all to share, after all we are social animals. Love takes things to next level, emotionally and then with sexuall desires. If know maths, the Venn diagram would look like three circles intersecting each other and one small section where all 3 circles intersect. Some are.fortunate where in they get all areas of these circles filled up, some have some areas empty. The imprtant thing is to know which is which and work on it. Hope I make sense. Love❤️

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Anonymous

🤩 thanks for the explaination 🙌🏽

@onkesh

Liked your explanation.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

What can I say, we are social animals. We seek company somehow. Thats how we are built! But its not like you need to date in order to feel complete

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Anonymous

True that! Hopefully it changes the way I think 💭

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