Why does he never send me a message first? Why has it always to be me who sends him a message first?

I understand what you mean. 
But when I'm really someones friend  I care and worry about this person. And I text this person first, I'm not always waiting that this person textes me first but this guy is always waiting for me to do it first...

Friends are a family that we chose.
Real friends are worth that we care and worry about them in good AND in bad times. 
But is this guy a real friend? I'm not really sure...

Gajni....aamir khan....cant remember anything

Because he want to enjoy his life! 
He don't want troubles in life! 

Maybe he is Gajini. So he only realize to text you back when you text him first

3am Thoughts

Hi. 
i just feel dumb. thinking about past relationship that didn't work out for the whole night.
we both are stranger at first. but then after several times my friends and i dine in at the same restaurant,he gave me his number. He seem nice untill he make me feeling loved. He decided to make me as his gf.
But why at the time my love started  grow, he suddenly being silence then we became stranger again. Yesterday, i just heard from my friend, he replied on my friend's status whatsapp, "she is my life". she is referring to his ex fianceè. Then why he approached me at the first place if he basically does not even try to moving on from his ex fianceè?
i couldn't stop thinking why i have to go through all of this and the dumbass part is why am i easily accept him?!. Starting from there, i believe that all men does not being serious in relationship. 
Thanks to him, now i am too scare to start loving someone again. 

Breakup

umm...so my bf and i are in LDR and my my ex is trying to get back with me...and I'm not into it and cutted of my ex a long long back ago... but he still wants me
and my bf knows it...and he reacted in a very weird way and said me to get lost...i have nevver hidden anything from him...idk what he's thinking he's not taking with me... does anyone have any suggestions??

Boyfriend

I'm just feeling low me and my boyfriend had a fight last night he said he needed some time but I used to chase me and now I feel bad I really don't know how can I approach him, we both are really different person, I'm feeling like I don't respect his decision, I wanna give him time but I get selfish because I want him we both are in long distance relationship, I wasn't able to sleep whole night due to severe chest pain and now Im getting more n more anxious, we said a lot of things during the fight, he used harsh words that hurt my feelings and I did the same, he begged me to leave him alone, but I just couldn't and right now I'm confused.


So there is this guy i started dating in november. And now since the situation is not getting any better due to this pandemic and virus, i am a little doubtful about this. And i really like this guy. We started talking less and less . And now i feel ignored sometimes. Should i confront ? Idk what to do

Confusion

I really needed to say this to someone so i wrote it here...its kinda complicated not kind of, its complicated indeed. I've been in a relationship I guess it has been more than 1½yr for that and we broke up cause of trust issues. It was really hard for me to get over him. I had spent many nights crying for him(I'm fine now) and then I got into another relationship. He was  really a good friend of mine and i was his crush from 6th standard. My friends started teasing me with his name from a few months and i thought i have feelings for him so i said him yes but i think i don't have genuine feelings like that for him. Also the memories of my ex are hitting me. Idk what should I do i literally end up crying over my situation. It's really very hard to get out of it like i can't even go back to my ex and i can't say him that I don't have feelings for you. I'm scared that I'll lose our friendship. Can anyone suggest what should i do
:/

I met someone through matrimony few months back. My big brother  and I met with his family and all was going super fine, he was quite interested in me.. He used to message me a lot but i was confused about starting conversation since due to some reasons my parents hadnt met him and i was scared of being too close emotionally with him. After about 7 months my parents who live quite far from here came here and met the guy and his family.. They liked him a lot and family as well. When i was given second chance to talk to him.... I had to talk to his cousin sister as well... Our thoughts clashed this time... I am a working girl and i demanded helping hands for the household chores and as well i made it clear that i will be doing 70 percent of the household work and 30 percent to be done by the guy... This  wasnt appreciated by his family... They totally misunderstood me... They thought i m someone who is not going yo helping at all in household chores. They denied to move  further. My problem now is i cant stop myself thinking about the guy. I dont know what are his thoughts about this matter, i have no contact with him now but i really do miss him. I dont whether its an obsession or something else!! 

Mental Wellbeing

I don't know what I am feeling but am I too dumb..... I loved a boy he played with me then when I tried to move forward he claimed to love me I was hesitant he spammed me harassed me then I said some harshest of harsh things we stopped taking he contacted me again we started taking again he played with me and left well I did know this was gonna happen but I thought maybe in tiniest of tiny tiny chance he'll change but he left again so I was expecting this but didn't know it'll hurt like shit again I went to shirdi and brought sacred bhabhoot especially for him because he has some health issues..... What should I do?? Should I give him I am never going to go back to him again but I don't know if he'll accept it or not he just says that he loves me and I really do that's why it's me who's suffering not him but should I give him?? 

Hello! Today I am felling so dejected. It's like I am a little broken from inside. Suddenly my close friend have changed his attitude towards me. He gets irritates easily with me even on our small talk. We have been close friends from school days and used to share our all daily activities, struggle and our achievement . A week ago he had some argument with me that I have changed like I am  not focusing  on my goal, doing gossiping with him and a little chit -chat  . He told me don't be like a simple people, pay attention  on Learning .I accepted my mistakes too that I won't waste your time and stopped doing so much gossiping with him. We again started to talk normally but  sometimes he  suddenly show disinterest in me.

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