Why does he always ignore me and then i feel too low and as soon as i receive his text all my emotions fade away and now i feel like he is using me and not valuing my presence.. What do i do 

Kafi bar try ki hu yrr but ho hi nhi pata

Confusion

That guy wasn't ready to commit but didn't want to let go either. It was going on since months,  Today I finally let go of him. Im hurt, really hurt because we were together for almost 3years and since few months all this breakup shit was going on. 
Idk if Id ever be able to get over him, because trust me, I really loved him, always kept his happiness above me like a stupid. My world was all around him.
In the end, he just said "Tu har bar drama krti hai" and I had nothing more to say.  He never understood or even  tried to. I just watched him leaving.

3am Thoughts

My ex boyfriend texts me from time to time. he asked me if I went on date with someone and I told him that no,and I asked him back if he slept with that girl that he was visiting her and his answer was ‘’I did not asked you if you slept so I will not answer to your question. Then why he texts me and wants to be my friend if he doesn’t want to answer if he slept with that girl or no. And I told him ok, then I will not talk with you on any subject because I felt that if he is not open with me I don’t feel like this is a real friendship. And he said,ok your choice if you don’t want to talk ,like all the blame is on me…
Is this normal his behavior?I would appreciate some honest opinions

Relationships

I got into a relationship in the month of Jan last year it was all good like just perfect we were happy together and then suddenly because of the lockdown it became a long distance thing. Everything was going well then too but slowly and slowly things began to change and then in December he broke up with me. We still talk to each other like just formal talks. But i can't let him out of my mind. I could not even meet him for the last time. This thing annoys me a lot that i met a person it was all good and then one day it just ended and we couldn't even sit and talk for once. I am trying to move on but it's getting difficult day by day. Also it seems like I am the one who is suffering and he is going well.

Breakup

Hey, so here i am sharing my feeling on this platform for the first time. So, i don't feel anything nowadays i feel so numb just going with the flow in the direction my life is taking me to.
I recently parted my ways with my ex reason being communication issues, time issue and all that stuff. I miss him so much. I have anxiety issues as well may be this lead to our breakup but i don't know what to do and how to deal with it. When i was in relationship i used to be sad every single day , initially it went well but as soon the lockdown got over and everything was coming back to normal my relation started drowning . I am in so vulnerable situation now i don't feel like talking about this to any one in-person. I think i can't be in any relation in future i just hate this love stuff i believe in love but i was always unlucky in this thing i just wanna focus on my career now . Sometimes i think all the moments which we spent together did it mean anything to him . See i will not say he was a bad person we both were wrong at our parts we didn't understand each other but i really love him but from his side maybe it was just an attraction. I don't know if we are meant to be together or not but i will always cherish the moments we spent together. 
I am eagerly waiting for my college to re-open and soon to move to another city . This is the only solution i see to my problem . My college will keep my mind distracted and everything will be normal like before.

It’s been three months since me and my ex broke up. It seems so little but in my head I feel like it’s been a year. The pain has made it feel that long. We’ve talked and it was almost nice to just see him again. That best friend that would always be here. But I still reached out to seek a comfort. A comfort he did not reciprocate in. He’s done with it. Done with me. And as painful as it is, I can’t keep holding onto him. I need to let him go. I tried to see if I can meet other people. But it’s almost impossible. Something that I learned from my ex is that I want to feel protected and loved to no end. But also that I wasn’t really attracted to him. I love how he was in the beginning, kind and attentive, but it’s hard to say I was physically attractive to him. Which sounds mean, I’m aware. I think he started to feel like I didn’t love him in this way, but he never did tell me this. But I don’t like lying to myself when it comes to this regard. I tried to go on dating websites to the attraction that I prefer but have yet to meet anyone who isn’t so quick to throw me into the trust box. I don’t want to be tested. I get scared and mess everything up. It’s frustrating. I’m so tired of everyone telling me that things take time and that it’ll happen. I’m so tired of always feeling like crap.

Guys this one is for you .... please tell me something. Me and my bf of four years were in a rough patch since two months. Mostly because I had become little toxic. We have worked things out now but since my bfs friend is staying with him since around 2 months we haven't been able to get intimate and neither has he tried. Otherwise generally we enjoy being that way. And is it wrong for me to think he might be cheating? I spoke to him about it and he is leaving for a trip and will be back only in 15 days. He says the longer we wait it will be better only. I'm not sure what to make of these words. Any peals of wisdom ? 

Boyfriend

So in my previous relationship my ex bf lost his feelings for me and I was devastated. I was soo mad at him like how can someone just lose feelings like they never had any feelings. Well that was 4 years ago. Now I am in relationship with a guy for 1 year and guess what, I have completely lost my feelings for him. I have had many reasons. Like I have always imagined my future in a certain way and the future he showed me of us together it's scary. And not scary good. I just hate it. Being the wife. Doing all chores. Following his religion (I'm an atheist). Plus his anger issues. I am literally scared of him. He shouts at me even for the smallest thing. He got into road rage just because he was angry about something and that too not just once. He says he is cool with me talking to and meeting with my guy frnds but his anger shows something else. Over all this I never wanted to date a guy to smokes or drinks. And I wouldn't have dated him but he lied to me before that he doesn't drink and he's working on quitting smoking too. But after getting involved with him I came to know that he smokes cigarettes like it's water and smokes weed too often. Like 1-2 joints a day someday even more. He just tells me he's trying to quit but in one year i haven't seen any improvement. Plus in thevery beginning of our relationship he left me for his ex gf and then after a month he came back to me. I was stupid enough to accept him. And then after all this he is insecure about me that I'll leave him for some guy. While I have stopped talking to most of my frnds because of his rage. And he recently bought a gift and went to his ex gf (same one he left me for) and celebrated her birthday at midnight where he didn't even remember mine. Plus when he finally called me on my birthday he made sure to make me cry. Now these all things have made me loose feelings for him. But I know he loves me too much. His family knows about me. And he has been through some dark shit. So though I don't have feelings for him but I still am not leaving him because I know he'll be devastated. I don't want to hurt him but at the same time I don't want to be with him. I am preparing for competitive exams and I literally don't talk to anyone at all except my family and he still thinks that I'm always just busy with my friends. I can't breakup with him because I don't want to hurt him but I can't stay with him because it's killing me
 Can anyone suggest me something so that he looses his feelings for me and breaks up with me. 


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