Why do we instantly start thinking about the future when we start to like someone???
Why not just live in the present and enjoy the memory we are creating
Like why need to know each one when you can just enjoy each other's company and just live in the moment and care less about the future or the thought of them leaving you 
cause future is yet to come but present in slipping out of your hands 

Not necessarily but somehow you got it right 

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3am Thoughts

Everytime someone shows that they care for me...I feel that they're faking it...I don't know I am having trouble to accept the love and care that people shows towards me...I just can't feel anything...I wonder is this happening because I actually trusted someone and they had broke my trust? My past experiences is stopping me to believe in anOne in present...its 😕 confusing:(

Conflict

My bestfriend talks to a guy rn. They’ve been talking since December which isn’t long at all lol. He had asked her to be his gf twice and she said no because she said she wants them to continue to get to know each other. They still talk but they’re NOT TOGETHER. She asked me if she should cut him off or not if he doesn’t give her a gift, even if it’s just a written letter, or acknowledge her at all??? She thinks it’ll show that he actually likes and care about her and feel like if he doesn’t then he don’t really care too much for her. 

I personally think it would be nice of him but if not it’s not really that deep cause again they’re just talking 🤷🏼‍♀️. He’s not obligated to do so. 

*DONT BE MEAN/RUDE PEOPLE*

Crush

I’m 23, working towards my goal with full Discipline and motivation. I don’t admit this often but I feel lonely on so many occasions. This doesn’t mean I don’t have friends. I have been cheated in the past which led me to believe I am Replaceable. My guards are way to high. Every time someone tries to talk or start a convo i get anxious  and completely shut off from the world. 


Anxiety

Hii!! 
My boyfriend and I dated for 1year 6months and 23days and then we broke up cause he told me that he was loosing feelings for me!! Whereas in the beginning he loved me more than I loved him, I always used to think that maybe I would loose feelings for him someday but he was the one who ended up loosing feelings for me!! We were actually classmates and 5years ago he dated one of my ex best friend and he loved her but she left him like he was never a reason to stay so I was there for him I used to console him and after few years he told me he loves me and I thought that maybe let's just give it a try!! I also thought that during his past he's been through a lot so I need to give him as much as love that I can and the plus point is I started catching feelings for him. I was in love for the very first time. I thought "Yessss he's the one for me, we're meant to be". I had seen my whole future with him but it ended up just in a blink of an eye!! I'm so hurt😔and also we were sexually active. All of the moments, the time we spent together, all pf the jokes, laughters, memories it just keeps flashing back in my mind. I miss him everyday, every second😔

Breakup

Any Darshaneer here 🖐️

Love

I absolutely H@TE the idea of “well, someone else has it worse” like NO, your p@in and tr@uma are completely valid despite what someone else went through.

**if you are looking for the sign this is for you**
For you The truth is, it does not matter how tightly you hold on to certain people, because at the end of the day, what is meant will always be yours.  Trust me when I say, the right people will choose you just as deeply as you choose them.  You will not have to beg for the love you deserve.  You will not have to quiet the way your heart beats against your chest.  One day, you will be met where you are.  One day, you will be someone's favorite thing, and you will not be confused, you will not feel like you are fighting for someone who is not fighting for you.  One day, you will understand that it never mattered how hard you held on to the wrong things, how much you tried, because the right things were always unfolding before you.  The right things were always choosing to stay....
  -BIANCA SPARACINO 

Mental Wellbeing

Since childhood I have been compared with my sister, as she is more beautiful and whitesh. I have grown up with that, and now I am so insecure about my own body. I try to fix it everyday, not because I wanting to, but because people have made me think like that I am not beautiful. It is sickening, it is a worst thing you can do to any child. It takes away the confidence, it makes them suffer for their whole life.

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