Why do we get rapedβ¦ And why is there no way of getting justice afterwards, why are we supposed to be sitting silently and why donβt they ever get punishment for what they did to usβ¦
Because of evilness inside of those people regardless their gender. Rape, murder, torcher, harrassment etc all crimes comes under this.
Ikrβ¦ But why canβt it be rightβ¦ Why is it still the way it is after all that we have done to make it rightβ¦ And am not just talking for girls am talking for the guys who have been through this too
Why canβt we just be safeβ¦
Ik how you feel , how angry you might be because of what happened with you as you were just a kidβ¦
Who felt safe being around people and trusting them , knowing that they wonβt do anything to harm you and then all of a sudden finding yourself being betrayed by them
Exactlyβ¦ And it shouldnβt be like thatβ¦
I just hope it all changes soon before all of us go and suicide
I get youβ¦ Being scared that he might touch me or what if that dude say besides me and placed his hands over meβ¦ that constant fear which is a fact that itβs gonna happen someday again and not just once but a lot of times and the fact that weβll have to go through the cycle of trying to keep ourselves alive just for some new dude to do it again
Sure but I donβt feel like talking rn , we can still connect right now and talk later
some men just canβt digest the idea that they canβt have sex with the person they like. itβs an urge to take advantage of an innocent or dominate someone they canβt dominate. itβs all the way disturbing. if you are going through such a scenario, i strongly suggest you to talk to the female helpline. remember the person who harassed you had no shame for doing it so you should have no shame for reporting him.
I canβt report it , my family has asked me not to
have you really talked to your family or youβre assuming things?
I have talked to them , they know everything and they themselves told me that they canβt do anything
if you earn then you can afford therapy i guess. so get a therapy and move out of your parents place. if you dont earn yet, i recommend you to start finding a job or doing more school activities. keeping busy and making new friends often helps a lot.
Am still a minor so I have to wait until I can support myself
take part in school activities. of you have a teacher you can trust you can tell her about the problem youβre going through. often teachers provide help. you have to trust someone ask for help.
There are many I trust but i donβt think they have a solution to my problem, so just telling them about my problems wonβt do anything to help me much
you are a minor so thereβs only very little you know about the world. a teacher might actually be helpful if you trust her with your problems. why? cause sheβs an outside entity. unlike your family who has judged you for your trauma, your teacher wonβt put the blame on you. cause the moment you tell them whatβs going on, you show courage to fight back. your family makes you think that coming out is your weakness but in reality it takes hella lot of courage and since youβre in this app, i know you have the courage. take your time, but when things get tough, donβt hesitate to rely on help.
I donβt trust anyone particularly, am scared that they might tell my parents about it and then Iβll be in trouble
please connect and talk to the psychologists here.