Why do some people have such a high ego? That they aren’t even ready to solve problems even after they know that the other partner around is ready to accept …mend and implement changes and mistakes…is it too hard? Or they just want to use the other person insecurities that they are too afraid of loosing them so they let them chase it…?

I just feel they enjoy the attention they get during such incidents 

shubh mittal

Psychology

Hello


3am Thoughts

It is so heart warming and doom to read anonymous messages to our names in a website.

How do you let go of regrets?
I have only made wrong decisions in life.
I wish I had worked hard enough. I wanted to be a doctor but I didn't put in the hard work although I was good in studies.
Now when I see my classmates who used to fail and get low marks becoming doctors(through donations) I feel miserable.
I wish I could go back in time. My parents say if you want to become a doctor go ahead. Don't care what others think but i dont think so i have the mental energy to become one. I am a depressed 24 unemployed person wondering what happened to me to get to this level.

Depression

I am going through this thing with my ex-girlfriend, her aunt does not want us to date each other, the worst part is that my ex has blocked me on whatsapp and keeps uploading stuff on insta as if nothing happened and that really kills me, I tried to talk to her, texted her on insta, she looks at my messages and not reply its been 2 days since I have last heard from her after which I got a call from her aunt saying to not contact my girlfriend anyway and also my ex-girlfriend has accepted the same and won't keep any contact with me. I haven't even got a closure, that's when I texted a mutual friend of ours, to whom my ex-girlfriend said "I am not been forced but think that my family would never accept him and it would be better if he moves on now, he will thank me later". I really don't want to move on, we had a wonderful time together 3 days ago, and now all of a sudden she says this, that too to her friend, can someone really stop loving so quick to whom they've given nearly everything?

Breakup

Guysss please help me 😭
Ok so I like a guy, who's madly in love with me. He asked me whether a girl will accept their partner if he was blind. I said sure if the girl really loves you she will. Then he asked me whether I will accept a blind man, I said yes if I really love him very much. Then he asked me what if that blind guy was me, then I said I don't really 'love' you, so idk but I can assure you I will never ever leave your side
But then he got upset and said bye and disappeared for the day. 
Did I say something wrong????? 

Anxiety

Just feeling really low , I've had self esteem issues all my life cause of my body growing up when u don't even know who u are and what the world is and from that young age when people tell u bad things of how imperfect n wrong u are , I've been skinny shamed all my life even after gaining so much weight it just doesn't stop I've come along way from then but still it just hits someday so bad I feel so alone I can't even share it when anyone or someone who gets me, everyday I feel so conscious of my looks n how I'm perceived feels like I'm trapped n everybody's just not going through or understands how it feels 

You can't smile with your eyebrows raised

Caregiver

Me and my bestfriend had a fight last week. Its been days we havent met or contact through phone. We both know our friendship is geeting broken, we kept arguing, we can feel that we are far from each other. We just don’t understand each other anymore. I just texted her that i wanted to talk. And she just replied she also have smth to talk. I don’t want to meet her because I can feel, this conversation gonna ruin our friendship more. 

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