Why do I feel unwanted from the actions of people whom I know are not a very important part of my life? I feel like an intimidating and desperate person. How to stop this self depreciating thoughts ?
Sometimes people show interest in me first and then just vanish, just ghost me. 
Some friends told me that it's okay, guys would come, flirt and leave. I was also doing that, I was just enjoying the new interactions and to be true, attention also. But when they ghost me, I feel bad, and terrible. Atleast they could formally end the convos. Why is my mind going so complex. Please help. 

I am feeling so so much good after reading this. Thanks, this felt so warm and helpful too. You made me feel better.

That's one of the sweetest and most heartfelt response I have had. Thankyou so much for that. You made me feel even better. I am really Happy to know that you feel better now. It is my pleasure to be of help. Keep Smiling. :)

Acquaintance

Not feeling good

3am Thoughts

Why everyone here thinks that only jee neet and iit are the better for career . Like i am not into any of these and not even for upsc becoz i know what can I do best what who ever ask me about it i tell them and they are like in sb me kuch nahi hoga engineering ke liye prepare kro upsc ke liye prepare kro

Career

Having emotional fatigue ?🤷‍♀
A lot of my clients in mid to late twenties coming with this trending emotional fatigue  due to this unforeseen hook up culture.🤦‍♀
wherein the one partner is getting attached and is coming up openly and the other is not ready to accept it completely except the physical  benefits.well, my dear,dating is not everyone's  cup of tea.💁‍♀ Especially,  when moves are planned strategically. You could get the fatigue after a lot of emotionally unstable realtionship.
Despite having good sex and everything, you would end up  questioning yourself where are the other stuff ?chasing over getting that pleasure is okay but what about intimacy and stability. 🙆‍♀ 
With everything being said,I am in no sense saying don't go on such apps but know yourself better before trying or experimenting something like that  and being authentic and honest  could be the things that  could savesave you from the post traumatic dating events if any occurs. ( hopefully, no. 🤦‍♀️)Also,there is no wrong or right moves in any scenario,whatever feel authentic to you, continue it with the real genuine connection.Being pushy could be the least attractive thing that you can do.
Alas, everything boils down to self awareness,sweet.🙋‍♀️
ps : it's not even my cup of tea,rather  my coffee :pyou do you,learn from the lessons. :)


Adulting

My ex reached out to me. He was very toxic for me and left me at a time when I needed him most. It took me quite a while to get over him, and when I had started to move on, he texted me. Two times in two weeks. I blocked him from everywhere. Now I feel like I'm back to square one to missing him, and I feel like I cannot move on.


Breakup

wanna share something?

Can anyone suggest me some good series to watch?

Confusion

🤷🏻‍♂️ every moment i grew older
Things changes
Khushi jo muffst ki thi abh vho mhengi hai
Sath jo humesha rehna tha vho chod chake gaye
Sapne jo sach horhai tabh mhenat karne ke bhad bhi nhi horhai

i'm starting to believe that some things happens for a reason. like the covid-19. a lot of people, most of people during the pandemic got depressed, some learned things from their selves. we all deal with it in different ways. we all experiences different struggles during that time. but it shaped us into who we are today. some don't like who they were today, some are thankful because it made them who they are today. it's a blessing in disguise as a curse (?). we all thought that it's the end of us. because who tf can make it out a month by just staying at home and home only? not being able to go out and only seeing the same faces everyday. from my personal experience, it's really a curse. i got depressed at a very young age, i don't want to open up because i'm young, I AM YOUNG, they won't believe me. i have no right to be depressed who wtf i am depressed of? i have no right to be tired because i'm just scrolling through my phone all day, sleeping, and eating. i'm harming myself, because it's the only way i can cope up with the pain. i shut people. i even hurt people unintentionally. months became a year, and year. the depression disappears but it never goes away. it doesn't come back because in the first place it never left. one minute you are happy, and a minute after you are sad, and so on. until we we're allowed to got out. u know they say change is the only constant thing in the world and it's true. u know it's not the same as it was. my friends changed. the environment changed. everything changed. i changed. i became dull. i am no longer the same person i used to be. until everything is quite back to normal. i survived the pandemic. i kind of enjoy my life. then came another tragedy. our city got hit by a typhoon. we lost our electricity, thankfully not our house. it's much worst than the pandemic, no electricity, no mobile phone. i never thought that i would make it. this one really changed me. i did a lot of things, mostly bad things. i learned how to smoke (actually i already know how to smoke before the typhoon but bc of the typhoon, i'm always smoking), i always drink, makeout with people, almost not at home, my family's always mad at me and i'm always thinking that they dont want me to be happy, that they're so selfish because they just want me in our house but turns out im the selfish one. i'm out having fun thinking that i'm happy while they're at home praying for my safety. later on, im questioning myself if am i really happy?? or i'm just distracting myself with the noice to forget about the reality? that's when i realized that im so wrong. i spent my time at our house, rethinking about life and there i realized a lot of things. lots of things that i still carry until now, things that made me who i am today. so i truly believe that some things happens for a reason. and i may not believe in fate or destiny but i believe that we are fated to do the things we'd choose anyway. if that makes sense. que sera sera.

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