Why do I feel like one day I am over him and the next day the universe decides to intervene in our destinies once more? Am I being paranoid?
If you believe in destiny/magic/some signs, then that’s what’s happening with you. Else it’s just a coincidence that you meet.
I guess you are just into him and ideally don’t want to be over him which makes you feel this way and your mind is going in that direction because if it did you wouldn’t most probably think that there is a sign or something that we should be together.
No no. you are not.
If you believe in destiny, it actually might be happening that way, but before you take a step forward think about it carefully