Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

Create Thought

Long Distance RelationshipThought

👀
Anonymous

Why do girls cry so much? My Gf cries for so silly reasons out of insecurity… No matter how much I assure her that I love only her, she doesn’t believe it. We are in a long-distance relationship and I know trust doesn’t come easy when we are so far away. But I do everything I can to make her feel good. How to make her stop crying so much? I can’t see her like this.
But no matter whatever I do, she still feels insecure about us. Are long-distance relationships so difficult to keep?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @thesadsoul
🏰
Profile picture for Now&Me member @tara01
4 replies
Profile picture for Now&Me member @thesadsoul

Jazz @thesadsoul

Yes these are difficult… because in most of cases one partner cheats so she is scared… text her how much u lv her when she’s asleep…she will lv it…she will wake up wd a smile on her face. Share ur passwords…if u are comfortable.tell her how much she means to u…pamper her… plan cute surprises for her…once she is sure she won’t panic or won’t cry so much…

🏰
Anonymous

honestly man, i’m a girl and i cry a lot too. even on things i dont want to cry upon cause theyre silly. so first ask your gf is shes genuinely hurt by seeing you far away or is it just something she does to feel better when you’re not there. second, long distance relationships are in-fact extremely hard to keep. if you feel like youre not gonna make it, just try one more time, if you cant make it known to her that you cannot tolerate you seeing you cry and it hurts you as well.

@okayletsdothis

Probably your words of assurance arent enough, and what you say should reflect more in actions. You can do something cute for her, go an extra mile and show her that you’re all hers. Long distance can be tough, and the only way to make it work is by acknowledging it and then moving ahead.

Profile picture for Now&Me member @tara01
@tara01

Its just because every person is different in all aspects.we have no idea what made her to be so.accept the difference don’t try to make her something you want.talk to her.communication is the key.show some empathy.coming from the place of love

user_group_img

8624 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image