why am I the villain if I hate my dad? everyone asks ME kaisi beti hai? bhai kaisa baap hai vo? why is he not asked such questions?? 

oh they know exactly what an asshole is. He is just a kid and blames his actions on others. He expects to be a perfect family after all the mess he made and just wants me to magically forget everything HE did. Dude he is a 40-year-old man..he should finally learn to face the consequences of his actions

i know right!! like they must just try to live with him for a day. Agar bhag nahi gye toh naam badal dena

Its totally okay to hate your parents!! Don’t care about others judgements, only you know why you hate or don’t like him.
just focus on you and your dreams🥰🥰
I am proud of you and one day you will be too☺️☺️
Stay strong Buddy🫂

Because they think that he is ur dad u should not say this to ur parents but what they don't see is what we are feeling what we are going through they will know once they will be in our shoes 

Family

It feels so annoying when your own dad curses you

Child Abuse

So my father is not a good father and I have been living with this my whole life, he is alcoholic and I didn’t feel the love that’s ok till now ,but !!! Now a days i feel jealous seeing fathers treats their children nicely!! Whenever i see someone kiss or hug or even talk with their child i avoid looking at them and try to ignore!! WHY this feeling came late i am an adult !! 

Confusion

I usually talk in a high tone unfortunately yesterday i told something to my father and he shouted me out of no where and used words that were out of dictionary . Literally i cried a lot . I wasn’t the victim and everyone asking me to say sorry . There are ways to say sorry but my father is choosing a way where i should bend down my nose to road !!  On the other hand my religion (i am muslim ) quotes make an apology to parents even if you are correct but i am confused so much what to do ! This clear cut is i am not gonna spare for the words my father told. I can’t describe it here literally . And on the other hand he loves me too but from 3 years he is behaving weird to me for some point then comes back to normal life. Wth 🤦 

3am Thoughts

My dad cheated

He’s someone I look up to, he’s smart and funny, but he cheated on my mom and my mom found out. He has impotence problem, and he didn’t want to let my mom find out, he always go out to drink with his friends, and one day he got drunk and had sex with a pub woman, he said it was a mistake. he then tried to have sex with her four times again but due to his impotence problem, he couldn’t. He told us that he has this impotence problem and he didn’t want to let my mom knows becos of his ego. So he settled to try to go out to have sex with this woman to fix his problem? I feel so bad for my mom, she found out her husband cheated and she doesn’t know what to do. What would you do if you were me? Will you forgive your dad? Or follow your mom’s decision to divorce? Or tell your mom the “truth”? 

Anyhow, I don’t understand why would my dad cheat for a reason like this. Is this an excuse? I never imagined something like this to happen to our family, I can’t imagine how devastated my mom must be feeling.

Cheating

i haven't had to use this for a while which is good (:

my mother and her new (i think (not too new)) boyfriend argue so much. he always says he just wants to get out while he's arguing and i just think 'we'll get out and go somewhere else'. my mum is too nice, she's letting him stay at our house and i don't want him here. i know that she'll listen to me if i say that i want him out but she won't kick him out 'cause of the reason that she's too nice.
He got 2 cats while he was here and i do *not* like them. i kept on putting them in the kitchen today so they don't come into my room and so i can leave my door open but he told me to stop putting them in the kitchen. 
it's so annoying to not have control over my own house while he's meant to be a visitor and all i feel he does is yell at my mum and whine about not having money (he doesn't have a job) or yell (once again at my mum) that he wants to get out. my mum is doing the best she can and he can't see that, so i don't want him here. he is wasting our money on games and i don't even know if he helps pay for the food or the house.

Mental Wellbeing

I hurt my father with rude behaviour. I am sorry. I was frustrated. After hurting someone else, I lose my peace of mind. 

Hello, so recently my parents separated from each other and it’s been really rough, I would not have a problem with them separating because I understood that was the best choice since their relationship wasn’t going well because of cheating. So now I am living with my mom and it was working out I noticed that it was way more peaceful in the house then it was before, however, lately I learned that my dad was still contacting my mom and eventually that progressed to threats and “stalking” (my mom already filed a restraining order), so I decided to talk to my dad about this and with that conversation I noticed that I couldn’t convince him that all that he was doing was hurting her, so I asked a question involving the fact the he messaged her about seeing her google search history and not liking what she searched up, since I already knew the answer to that question I wanted to see if he was going to lie to me and guess what, he did, at that moment I just felt like I couldn’t trust him anymore, I also learned the he got my mom fired from her job, and that really make me sad, I couldn’t believe my dad was doing that, and now We probably won’t even be able to sustain ourselves, but the worst part is when I heard my mom crying when she was in the shower, that really messed with my heart, the only thing I don’t want to happen is her crying, lately I have also been feeling useless, not that I have suicidal thoughts, I would never do that, It is just that things have been so hard lately that I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know if anyone is gonna take their time to read this, but still, I just needed to let some stuff out you know.

hi, i truly believe my dad is mentally insane or bipolar and needs to go and see a mental hospital. today it was sports day at school meaning we needed to take our own packed lunch and my dad agreed to buying a sandwich for me at a shop near the school i go to. (my dad drives me to school as i don’t know how to go there by myself yet - i live quite far from my school)

so he stopped and parked the car near the store and turned around to see me in the back seat. AND HE KEPT REPEATING ONE SENTENCE OVER AND OVER. MORE THAN 20 TIMes he was saying, “tell the teacher that you don’t want to be in this house anymore, and they will take you.” like he repeated it so many times. he was saying it in like a barking voice after a few times it made me laugh a bit so he started getting even madder idk how to explain

and he was trying to imply that if i hate him and my mom and my sister so much, then i should tell a teacher about them and they would take me to CPS or something or whatever people call it

so then he finally got out of the car and got me a sandwich, then dropped me off at school.

when i got home, my mom and sister were at home (not my dad because he was at work) and like my mom was angry for no reason i dont know why, and she started blaming her nerve pain and fibromalgia and 7 slipped discs in her body on me. 

time skip to when my dad got home i remembered what happened in the car and how my dad was repeating the sentence so i decided to bring it up since i thought my dad would be normal about it idk why i thought that

i was like "oh you know baba was like 'tell the teacher that you hate family and they will take you' " 

AND THEN SUDDENLY MY DAD FLIPPED OUT OR WHATEVER U CALL IT AND STARTED DRAGGING ME and he also started punching my arm which i got my covid vaccine in two days ago and it hurt really badly. so i was like "pls stop punching my right arm oh my god"

and he started saying "IM GOING TO KICK YOU OUT IM GOING TO KICK YOU OUT" thats why i think he has autism no hate to people with autism but i have heard they repeat things a lot.

and then he opened the door to the back garden i swear all our neighbours could hear it. then my mom ran to shut the door because well how embarrassing a grown 50 year old man screaming for some reason. (it also sounded like the barking i explained before.)

what happened after my mom closed the door was my head was being dragged by my dad, which hit my moms teeth or mouth or something? AND SHE SUNK TO THE GROUND ACTING LIKE THE PERSON WHO WAS REALLY HURT AND SHE STARTED PLAYING VICTIM

im too lazy to explain the rest but that happened and after that i ran upstairs and since ive got a broken nose and im insecure about it they threaten to punch my nose so it can be more wonky. that annoys me a lot.

so i think my parents are severely bipolar or something i dont know especially my dad because wtf? can someone help me self diagnose my dad with something 
im not a licensed therapist 



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