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why am i so scared to love this amazing girl. we have been friends for a while now but recently different feelings were expressed from both sides. why am i frightened by how strongly i feel for her. any suggestions?

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You seems to be overwhelmed by the feeling and fearing out thinking you may lose her along with her friendship if it doesn’t work out. It is common feeling for many especially for then friends and now lovers.

If everything is working out well be the way you are and don’t over do anything just because you are into relationship now. Have a great life together.


That’s only normal. Don’t be frightened. Keeping your feelings aside, if you think you would make a good couple and get along each other well, you have to take the next step into your relationship. Both of you, I mean. I strongly feel that any relationship will be strong if there’s an underlying friendship/kinship.