Why am I single? Why am I the Ted Mosby of my friend group? Do I not deserve a happy, loving relationship with a person who loves me at least half of how much I love them? These are some questions which cross the mind of every single person at least once in their lifetime. Personally speaking, I have always wondered, why is it that the people I know, my friends or acquaintances get in relationships, find a partner, even if its not forever, and then stay together and spend time with each and do all the things couples do??? I mean why is it that I am always the only person who has not had a real in person relationship with a girl while all my friends are in one, some even dating 2 or 3 people in a span of idk 6 months??? idk how that works but ok. So yes, why am I single? I dont know. For real, I try to ask myself this question and all that comes back to me is that maybe the right one hasn’t shown up yet in my life. But even if she hasn’t, does that mean I am destined to stay single until I find the one I will marry? That is absolute nonsense!! I can date people who aren’t going to stay forever, right? I mean of course I can. This constant thought of why am I single will not leave my mind unless I start dating someone. I mean I get it, dating has its own issues, but staying single, that do if its like me for almost 6 years now, then its intolerable!! It’s super upsetting to see other people, especially your close friends to have someone they could hold hands with, hug and cuddle with, share their minds with and then there’s you, sitting alone with nothing but shit -.-
Are you seeing somebody?
