Why am I scared of people đ
Because they are⊠it is not your fault
I feel it kinda is my fault
No bro⊠you are okay but people are not đđ
But all my friends and people around me doesnât have that problem
Like the thing is I am not scared of strangers đ„Čam scared of people i know
Every person has different mind set bro. You might not vibe with them or not feeling friendly⊠sometimes it is peopleâs behaviour as well that scares usâŠ
You observe and out those things in your mind⊠Which make you feel this.
I donât think so because most of the people doesnât consider me existing đ
What
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Yađđ„Č
Sky @blue_green
Same me too
What do you do when you are around people.
Everyone is scared of people. Fake it till you make it.
My whole life i have been facing đ„Č. faking smile faking happiness and i donât think I can make it
You are what you think. If you constantly think that you canât make it, or that youâre not good enough then youâll NEVER be. Faking it till you make it doesnât mean you fake your happiness. You fake your confidence till it becomes you. If youâre insecure that will become you. Also everyone around you is faking it. No one has it sorted. NO ONE. just chill out and take it lightly. Focus on things that should matter. Let go of things that donât. I read this somewhere, if in 5 years youâre not gonna remember it then donât waste your time thinking about it now.
Find your own happiness. No one can do this for you. You alone can find it.
But itâs kinda getting serious now a few months back there was an festival and i wasnât in the mood to go (scared)but my parents pressured me to go and as I reached there I found some people i know and my heart was like beating fast and ran back home and lied and said I had headach
I think am happy in my closed room doing nothing and all alone
It happens. Maybe you feel like youâre less accomplished than the others. Or you donât want to answer the questions your relative will ask because you havenât figured life out. But let me tell you, NO ONE CARES. Theyâll ask you and then go home and forget.
But I totally understand this feeling. I felt it too. But I just dress well and go out in confidence even though inside Iâm crumbling.
What youâre feeling is normal. But donât avoid people. Cause eventually people will forget about you and youâll be all alone.
No one cares as long as you are a good person. Iâm sure you have a great personality that people will enjoy. Share your talents and skills with people.
Also you can always go to a doctor. A psychiatrist, therapist will help. They prescribe medicines for these feelings that will endorse your happy hormones. Also talk to your parents when theyâll hear how you feel theyâll understand you better. Let them help you. Donât assume they wonât understand. Your parents want you to be happy after all.
Nah I am a boaring person no one likes to talk to me
Did anyone tell you that youâre boring or did you just assume?
Even the most boring people have friends. Donât find excuses.
I know no one really cares but i donât know why I am feeling like this itâs driving me crazy đ„Č tomorrow I have an exam and all I do is crying .i avoided people today đthere was an event and my friend came and called me and i said I am not in the mood and she left without a word .
Then what are the reasons of people not talking to me like they talk to other people well .
I have said it and my father said itâs all in my mind like Iâll give you a book to read and stuff.my father mostly talks to me about my studies (he believes knowledge is the true happiness)and a busy mom she has a lot of problems for herself
Every relationship is a give and take. If you sit in a conversation without participating in it cause of your insecurities then people will get bored. They donât know youâre insecure. Itâs not cause they donât want to itâs cause they donât know how.
If you spend all your life avoiding a conversation and people then can you really blame the people? Even if they want to be friends with you they canât.
Seek help. Go to a doctor. Itâll help you. Trust me.
Tell them you want to see a doctor. Tell them you need to. Make them take you to a doctor for your happiness.
Mm itâs really messed upđ„Č
I thought I ll go alone .am 18 so is it ok?
Yes!!! If you have the money please do go. It will really help you! :) I hope you feel better. Do go! Donât be alone. Life is really short. Enjoy it while you can!
I hope you stop avoiding people. I hope youâre surrounded with people who love you. Atleast one person. :)
Maybe! :) but also maybe not. We spend too much time fussing over matters and complicating things that shouldnât be. As long as one is happy itâs okay. But if youâre not happy then one must seek help!
Thank you đ„șâ€ïž
Why everything sounds familiarâŠ
To u?
Yess