Isha @issa
Why am I getting distant from my parents?
Like, our opinions don’t match, I constantly argue with them and I feel we don’t have that connection with them as I used to…
I want to enjoy my life with them, share my secrets but I just can’t…
Pradeep @bhambhu
You enjoy your life and times 😊😊
I am going through the same thing. Just accept the fact that we can’t change thier opinions and ideogies. But the love is still the same. Enjoy your time together even though you want different things… this time might not last forever…
Isha @issa
yes I agree and I love them but they are always annoyed at me
Karan @insights
It’s obvious yrr…it’s maybe because of generation Gap that they don’t understand our situations. And sometimes we can’t understand their psychology also what they are saying and thinking . We have to be understood them so that they can understand us.
Isha @issa
yeah I’ll have to try
Karan @insights
Yess,and don’t feel stress this is very normal thing,every teenage and adults face this situation.
Shoni @shoni
It’s the same with me sometimes
But then I would give them some time
Talk to them, enjoy with them, sit with them.
Give them some service like massage their legs or back…
Just remember u have to lose something to get something.
Saviour @enlightenment
It’s okay… Like yeah, bas bolne k liye nahi bol raha hu. It’s literally okay. Considering the age and generational gap. The opinions can be formed based on their experience, And their lessons from the experiences maybe obvious depending upon the situation. So since everybody has different perception, you can’t do anything about it. If you can, then it’ll take sometime and a lot of homework needs to be done without losing patience. The opinions formed through the lessons they learnt from their past may not be relevant to you…cuz we live in a fast changing world. And just because we can adapt to this dynamic world, doesn’t mean our parents too can…😅😅. I fall in the same category too…but w/ my father. If he says xyz, then my opinion will be Abba dabba Jabba. A ≠ B hence proved. Chill out
Hope @cureplace
Its a phase that all of us go through when we enter adult like or in clg.
It wont last for long, once you realise your parents care for you a lot and they have better understanding of world, then you think
it feels like the closest people and right now the farthest from you?
