Wherever I go, I feel alone as maybe I lack social skills. Also, I donโt do any justice to my age. Now I realised I donโt have anyone to talk or say friends. Idk how will I survive alone as I am not mentally strong infact depressed n all.
Same here, itโs a matter of stepping out our usual comfort zone and accepting others for who they are and they do
Itโs not easy at first because you just canโt do this with everyone you meet, others are still learning to do this, the better we become at it will improve your social problems
I do accept people as they are, itโs just I canโt open up with anyone. And sometimes itโs others who donโt accept.
Ah I see my girlfriend just told me something like this yesterday, I think the solution is to try and attempt being open with just anybody and read they flow and react off that, you learn more about people the longer you do this
Yeah, I try but itโs hard for me, from being not a social person to talk and it needs time and these days no one has that much time uk
Yeah but if you truly want to, then at least try and see how things go, get into a habit of doing often so it wouldnโt be hard
Yeah, I am facing it hardly as either then I come up as annoying or other donโt have that much patience to keep up with me. I donโt want to bother them then. Itโs so circle of issues lol
Yeah adjusting to people can be challenging but if your heart is really in getting to be that person or even there social groups, itโs like another part of them you have to accept
Yeah. Well I am not in clg anymore so donโt have any scope irl. Online I try to talk tho but same no, everyone is busy, god I just canโt open up. Really finding it hard. Thankyou btw, you so kind
Yeah me too, like I donโt open up enough to the point where everybody accepts it you know what I mean
True even i canโt open with anyone that easily donโt express myself and so many people think that i am not interested to talk to themโฆbut i am same like you
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Truth to that but at the same time you picture what it really like to be more open with the people you do want to be social with even though you find it hard
Yes but being taken for granted and making them feel low and small also people doesnโt want to be with those people as they come to know that they are like that
Donโt look at the people who judge or take you for granted or even make you feel low, just know you have the potential to go beyond your own capabilities and no one should make you feel bad for that
Yeah, being treated bad and all bad experiences come in way, even if sometimes things are going well. Idk how to deal with that
True I find myself in a similar situation, even when the environment seem welcoming I still find it hard to be more than a introvert, I just speak less and think more of what kind of responses I get if I engage into there activities