Whenever my parents fights I just go silentβ¦it is like depression and shock for meβ¦everyday see them fighting using abusive language for each other in just got so much traumatic thoughtsβ¦that Iβm even not able to concentrate on my competitive exams preparation.
Itβs very difficult to see them fighting when they both means life to uβ¦ππππππππ
Aisha @aisha123
I think u have to talk someone
Who understands ur inner feelings
And who is ur close
Yes she is correct
Okay thanksβ¦bt i donβt have anyoneβ¦and more importantly I donβt want to pour out someone I knew already bcozβ¦may be i say some of the things which I may regret. β¦
Hmmm
Nitin @nitinsxngh
This type of parental fights cause trauma or we can say childhood trauma, which really affects the future and traits of there child, specially fighting in front of there children, If they are understanding you should talk to them, else you should talk to your close ones, big brother, sister or maybe a friend, surround yourself with good and positive people, so that it can at least balance your mental peace.
Bachpan se im facing thatβ¦im a victim too of childhood traumaβ¦sometimes it haunts meβ¦
From yearsβ¦thatβs why ab jb bhi vo late h I just go silentβ¦my mind stops workingβ¦i just freeze out and bs sit in a corner listening loud music to avoid the depressionβ¦
Me kisi known se baat nhi kr skti lgta h khi share krne k chakkar me kuch glt na nikl jaye mere muh se parents k bare meβ¦
I also have the same problem. They donβt argue all the time but sometimes.
I have a 10 year brother too. I canβt concentrate on my studies. It hurts me so much but what can I doβ¦ I just remain silent in the other room.
I can understandπ’π