Whenever my parents fights I just go silentโฆit is like depression and shock for meโฆeveryday see them fighting using abusive language for each other in just got so much traumatic thoughtsโฆthat Iโm even not able to concentrate on my competitive exams preparation.
Itโs very difficult to see them fighting when they both means life to uโฆ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Aisha @aisha123
I think u have to talk someone
Who understands ur inner feelings
And who is ur close
Yes she is correct
Okay thanksโฆbt i donโt have anyoneโฆand more importantly I donโt want to pour out someone I knew already bcozโฆmay be i say some of the things which I may regret. โฆ
Hmmm
Nitin @nitinsxngh
This type of parental fights cause trauma or we can say childhood trauma, which really affects the future and traits of there child, specially fighting in front of there children, If they are understanding you should talk to them, else you should talk to your close ones, big brother, sister or maybe a friend, surround yourself with good and positive people, so that it can at least balance your mental peace.
Bachpan se im facing thatโฆim a victim too of childhood traumaโฆsometimes it haunts meโฆ
From yearsโฆthatโs why ab jb bhi vo late h I just go silentโฆmy mind stops workingโฆi just freeze out and bs sit in a corner listening loud music to avoid the depressionโฆ
Me kisi known se baat nhi kr skti lgta h khi share krne k chakkar me kuch glt na nikl jaye mere muh se parents k bare meโฆ
I also have the same problem. They donโt argue all the time but sometimes.
I have a 10 year brother too. I canโt concentrate on my studies. It hurts me so much but what can I doโฆ I just remain silent in the other room.
I can understand๐ข๐ญ