Whenever I share my problems with my friends the always shut me off by saying they are busy or any other excuse. On the contrary, whenever they are feeling or messed up I am the first one the approach. I give them an ear, suggestions and do whatever best I can do but it is never reciprocal.
When it comes to them, they will know sharing problem helps but why is it that in my case it becomes less important?
They aren’t good friends. You keep them just not close enough.
Hii I also experience that… I’ve been there for them when they have a problem or they need someone to talk to but they never been here with me when i need them the most… So what i did was when they try to talk to me with their problems i ignore them and it came to the point where i dont even talk to them anymore and Some other time happen my friend ask me some advice and he needs someone to talks to and what i said was “why would i?” and that guy told my other friends that i’m not the guy who they knew and after that they’ve been making it sounds like i’ve never helped them at something so one day i had enough so i went early at school than usual and never wait for them and after they arrived they said that i’m a fcking fake friends and i told them "Look who tf is talking… Btch are you fckng old? Can’t remember all those shit i’ve done for you eh?, Remember who tf is the guy who helped you when you’re at your lowest? Oh can’t btch? Well remember the guy who’s the one Trying to seek your help when he is at his lowest and you ignored him? Yeah i’m that guy… Now that i starts to ignore y’ll when you seek for my help you’re saying that i’m a fckng fake friend? Btch when you ignored me did i even called you any shit or badmouth you? "and they became silent cant even talk back and since then i ignored them find a new group who’s really whom i can call a friend. They’re not a good one bro ignore them and find a good one.
Surely moving on is the only way… :)