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๐Ÿง‘Anxiety

๐Ÿ˜ฐStress

๐Ÿ’—Relationships

โ€บLonelyโ€บThought

@disconsolate

Whenever i read comics wherein the main leads or basically when i see couples in comics looking so carefree, i just snap. Like, there is this feeling of envious and happiness and a mixture of everything else that doesnt match up with each other. :( can someone help me? My heart aches so badly. But one things for sure is that its not because i want to date someone too. I just think that i want to have a someone who will think im special and someone who is head over heels for me:( someone who will smile at me like the world has no problems. Soneone who will be considerate about all things i dont like doing. Someone who likes every part of me. Thats it i guess?

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Eva ๐Ÿ’• @k9nzaki

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comics , movies , mangas always portray the โ€˜ perfect โ€˜ relationship and i guess people who are single always dream/wish for it and it makes us feel so lonely that we donโ€™t have that significant other in our life or someone who just appreciates us for who we are. peoples expectations of relationships/people are usually high because theyโ€™re looking for someone who โ€˜ came out of a movie โ€˜ . itโ€™s a natural thing to have those โ€˜ movie relationships ect โ€˜ but seeing real relationships thereโ€™s a biggg comparison haha , sorry if my response was unhelpful i am just trying to help xx

@disconsolate
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Yeahโ€ฆwe all live on expectationsโ€ฆi guess thats what you could say. Butbreally, i dont mind if they arent perfect. I just need to feel wantedโ€ฆanyway, thank you for your response!

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Eva ๐Ÿ’• @k9nzaki

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youโ€™ll find that one significant person and iโ€™m glad i could help ! <3

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