Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Whenever i kept myself busy with some study or physical stuff life goes smooth
And when i complete a task and gets free for sometime it feels like emptiness and i need some girl in my life to discuss sub concious things and things which i cant discuss with my friends or family
Veddiex @veddiex
Oh, hi Kuldeep! (Sorry I’m not a girl 😅) … You wanna talk about it more?
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Just tell me the solution bro if there is
And it should be not that get youself a girl and like that
I have heard it many times
Base Up @idol_type9
Just curious…
Who are you ??.
Btw about your problem… Its as simple as… Keep yourself busy… Why do you wanna get free time… When you know it create chaos in your head… Try exploring new hobbies and tasks in your free time na.
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
You cant keep yourself busy all the time
There must be some time when your head thinks and thoughts shuffle in your head
But i think what you are saying is apt too maybe i do need to explore new hobbies for myself so my focus remains intact
Base Up @idol_type9
Hmm
Veddiex @veddiex
No man, Not that type of solution… get a girl and all that… Tell me more bout your problem and I might be able to understand what exactly you’re going through… It’s okay to feel that way honestly!
Veddiex @veddiex
All u need is to understand who you are !
Appreciate yourself for who you are
Keeping yourselves busy can only eliminate problem temporarily but if you want to be permanently free, get to the root of it .
Do breathing exercise for a while and ask yourself, what exactly do I need and why do I feel that way? Am I incomplete?
Actually we all are complete but we realise that when we truly find ourselves.
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Wow
How old are you sir
Veddiex @veddiex
I’m just 17 mate!
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Okay but is it just me immature or arent you a bit matured for your age 😅
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
But anyway thanks bro and one more thing there is no definite answer to who am i
I will figure out with time or something like that
Hansika @siya_07
Well… Why don’t ya try another activity?? Like… Can try stayin busy… I guess
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
You know what thats the most nearby solution i am going to follow as of now
Because i think the answer of who am i will come naturally at some point or i will try find an answer to that at some later phase of my life
But as in this phase i have to give utmost importance to my career.
Its just that for last 1 week i was feeling like this and it is following a pattern kind of thing for last 1 year i guess
Veddiex @veddiex
Everyone says it to me actually. Lots of things have happened to me and hence you can see the product, the better me!
I didn’t give up and kept surviving no matter how tough it got… Tried to give up but a single reason for you is enough to keep going on than a thousand reasons to give up and let go your life!
I’m better than I was and I’m happy that I am! So yeah 😄✌️
Hansika @siya_07
Well… The results are very good I guess… And Yeah… Stay happy man… Life is too short to be spent in unnecessary troubles that one gives to him/herself
Veddiex @veddiex
Thanks hansika , I appreciate it 😄
Veddiex @veddiex
I’m glad , So kuldeep all I wanna tell you that it’s completely fine not to kno who you are as you create space for framing the new you, and you’re most welcome… I’m always here for ya!
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Thanks bro
Arpita Sur @arpitaaa05
It happens to the best of us. Well, have friends or some other activity you would love to do like games and sports when you’re not occupied studying.
Feel free to talk to me :)
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Okay well thank you but i do have some good friends and i do play good amount of sports too
Maybe its just that hostel life is catching upto me cause its my first time outside my home and all.
I will get back to my normal routine soon
And thanks arpita
Arpita Sur @arpitaaa05
I can so relate with you. Even I’ve been staying away from home for the first time and my hostel life sucked for most of it. So faced my own ups and downs. :p
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
So can i ask general questions like where are you from,what are you studying,which institute here only if you are okay with them
