When I was in college I had a crush on one girl . Every day I went her block to see her. And she is elder than me . But I like her looks . I never talked to her in college. But after my graduation I message to her in social media . She don’t even consider me in social media. When we both are in college we have eye contact each other . But coming to social media she don’t even spoke to me. I don’t know why she is behaving like this. I hope one she will definitely talk to me . I’m hoping for that day comes fast to me.
Shreya Gupta @shreya
She doesn’t talk to you because she doesn’t want to. It has got nothing to do with you. Maybe she is simply not interested. But continuosly stalking and texting her is toxic behaviour. That way you are harming yourself as well as disturbing her peace. Please try to move on and place your interests in other hobbies. If one day she likes you, she will contact you herself. If she doesn’t, you will surely find someone else. But please do not ruin your time by stalking someone. It’s unhealthy as well as offensive.
Yeah I realised about that girl , sister . Thank you very much for your reply sister
Can I ask you something. From the beginning of this pandemic period I met one girl In social media . We both are chat together without knowing the time . But one fine day I stopped talking with her because I thought I was wasting my time & I’m not interested to chat with anyone in that time . Because I got irritation in that time but after some time I came to normal position which means in mentally get normal . But during that time she messaged to me I didn’t give any reply to her . So she got angry on me & she blocked me & again unblocked me . But after those situations she didn’t talk with me & I also do what she makes to me. But now I get some guiltiness on me because why iam behaved with her like weird in that time. But now I realised I’m not interested to chat with her. So, could you please give any suggestion to me . I’m always feeling guiltiness about this incident why I’m doing like this.
Shreya Gupta @shreya
I do think it was a mistake on your part, suddenly starting to avoid her. But at the same time, all of us have been under stress during that period. So it is okay to have made a little mistake. Now that you are willing to rectify it, you should definitely talk to her again. Apologize, maybe. I am sure she will understand and you will feel better too!