When I get upset my partner tries to fix things. If she cannot fix things, then she seems to get angry and withdraws. As she withdraws, I get more upset as I want support when I am upset. I don’t know if I am saying things in a way that she feels attacked or if she just cannot handle it when she cannot fix things or when I feel strong negative emotions.
Amrinderpreet @youareimportant
Communication would be the best thing to do here. You need to bring your emotions out openly and she has the same right to withdraw if she does not want to do it. But you really need to sit together and talk about your feeling. She might be getting tired/ sick of doing things when you are showing her negative emotion, so try to bring positivity and talk it loud to each other.
