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silentboi @5ha7ja

When given the choice between being right or being kind, i choose to be kind✨

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The Phyton @shaguar

Not everytime some assholes don’t deserve kindness

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Anonymous

Then what do they deserve?

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The Phyton @shaguar

They deserve some tit for tat

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Anonymous

And would tit for tat actually change them as people? Would they stop being assholes?

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The Phyton @shaguar

No , same as being kind to them would not change

Alexy Milán @milan_a

I’m not saying kindness is a solution, but if the outcome is the same, what would you get from hurting them instead of anything else?

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The Phyton @shaguar

Saving my energy

Alexy Milán @milan_a

Doesn’t punishment require energy?

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The Phyton @shaguar

Yep energy is required but worth spending

Alexy Milán @milan_a

Yeah that’s what I’m asking, why do you win from it?

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The Phyton @shaguar

That they got to taste of their own medicine

Alexy Milán @milan_a

And what do YOU win from it?

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The Phyton @shaguar

Sadistic pleasure

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Anonymous

Sadistic pleasure applies to hurting anyone. Do you think it’s a good enough reason to hurt anyone? I see little difference between this and hurting someone randomly on the street

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The Phyton @shaguar

I mean not hurting them avoid being kind to such persons

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Anonymous

What about simply avoiding the people as much as possible. It’s still not mean or anything, but in that case they won’t affect you as much

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The Phyton @shaguar

Yupp better avoid than react

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