When did you all loose your virginity? Sometimes i feel like Iโm kinda not as cool as others cause I havenโt lost it yet,that too being a guy.
Even Iโm still a virgin dude so itโs fine๐ just donโt worry about it
No plans of loosing it?๐
Not yet because my partner wants me to wait till marriage so yeahhh๐ ๐
Its completely normal . You should not force yourself just because everyone is doing so. S*x is not only a physical thing but also a deep connection of two people. So when you feel like you are ready then only try it and also be protected.
Yeah i get that. But sometimes that lust just kicks in,and later am like what am i even doing
You have to control it because if you get physical just because everyone is doing it then after sometime you will regret it and always remember better things come late in life . So be positive and try to control yourself
I regret losing my virginity. I was 21
Damn. Why so
It is a very long story. It was like having sex without feelings, without passion. She might have enjoyed it, well i did not.
Never rush into something u feel like u r being rushed into
Take your time
Explore
Itโs important to be in the moment and feel
1st is always gonna be special even though u may not end up with the person but itโs a memory youโll cherish
So in all take your time and find ur groove and the person
Take careโค๏ธ
Itโs getting kinda hard for me to find that groove,as Iโm very introverted
Being introverted is alright.
Give yourself time and youโll get there.
Iโm 22 and still a Virgin
Ik people who are around high 20s and still virgins so itโs alright.
Having a high body count ainโt always good or trendy
Sometimes it makes you a douche too ๐
Donโt worry Iโm sure youโll get your groove
Might take a while but youโll
Any suggestion as to how to get it
Well thatโs something I too donโt know
I feel itโs a trial and error cuz I too am on the same boat๐
Well, avg age to lose your virginity in India is 23 years old.
If u are younger, then just wait. And if you are above 23 years, then also wait .
I mean it doesnโt matter. U might feel ashamed between your peers.But its okay dude .
Being asexual , I dont know when will I lose it โฆ it might take some months or years or idk forever โฆ So for me idc.
Ahaan i get it. But sometimes that lust just kicks in
It happens. Just control your urges.
Itโs totally okay dude! Dw!
Weโre not in a race. And just because everyone is doing it doesnโt mean wr have to. As a virgin girl who sees everyone talking about sex and hookups etc even I felt like that. But after all, sex should be had only when weโre ready and only when we find a trustworthy person for that.
And itโs nothing like guys should lose Virginity first or sleep with lot of girls. It doesnโt make you less cool if you havenโt experienced it yet.
Tbh the whole concept of โlosing virginity ASAPโ Is overrated and exaggerated.
Remember, weโre not in a race ๐ป
Yeah i guess thatโs true. Thanks
Thatโs fine thereโs nothing โcoolโ about it so chill and I am a virgin too so letโs not overthink this
Ohhkay wait.
Is losing virginity being cool and all???
Its okay you are hot!!๐ฃ๐ฅ๐
Focus on your career you hot brother๐ฅ๐ฃ
Nah, itโs okay. Plus being a woman I myself and I know my friends too would take proud on having their first time with a first timer too.
And itโs not something thatโll categorise you into the cool category. Itโs something divine. Lose it with the right person at the right time. Donโt rush into things. Donโt do something thatโll make you regret it. Regretting something like your first time would be one thing youโll keep thinking all your life.
One of my close friends rushed into it and had the regret of a lifetime. Now sheโs scared to do it again with anyone because, her very first experience was not so good.
Patience mateโฆ Have some patience. Being not cool is much better than rushing into it and regretting it for lifetime.
Hope it helps and hope you understand too mate.