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When did you all loose your virginity? Sometimes i feel like Iโ€™m kinda not as cool as others cause I havenโ€™t lost it yet,that too being a guy.

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@ishuuuuuuuuuuu
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Even Iโ€™m still a virgin dude so itโ€™s fine๐Ÿ˜‚ just donโ€™t worry about it

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Anonymous
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No plans of loosing it?๐Ÿ˜‚

@ishuuuuuuuuuuu
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Not yet because my partner wants me to wait till marriage so yeahhh๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚

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Anonymous
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Its completely normal . You should not force yourself just because everyone is doing so. S*x is not only a physical thing but also a deep connection of two people. So when you feel like you are ready then only try it and also be protected.

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Anonymous
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Yeah i get that. But sometimes that lust just kicks in,and later am like what am i even doing

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Anonymous
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You have to control it because if you get physical just because everyone is doing it then after sometime you will regret it and always remember better things come late in life . So be positive and try to control yourself

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@pinkyellowbluegreen
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I regret losing my virginity. I was 21

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Anonymous
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Damn. Why so

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@pinkyellowbluegreen
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It is a very long story. It was like having sex without feelings, without passion. She might have enjoyed it, well i did not.

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Anonymous
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Never rush into something u feel like u r being rushed into
Take your time
Explore
Itโ€™s important to be in the moment and feel
1st is always gonna be special even though u may not end up with the person but itโ€™s a memory youโ€™ll cherish
So in all take your time and find ur groove and the person
Take careโค๏ธ

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s getting kinda hard for me to find that groove,as Iโ€™m very introverted

@randomteen
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Being introverted is alright.
Give yourself time and youโ€™ll get there.
Iโ€™m 22 and still a Virgin
Ik people who are around high 20s and still virgins so itโ€™s alright.
Having a high body count ainโ€™t always good or trendy
Sometimes it makes you a douche too ๐Ÿ˜…

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Anonymous
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Donโ€™t worry Iโ€™m sure youโ€™ll get your groove
Might take a while but youโ€™ll

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Anonymous
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Any suggestion as to how to get it

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Anonymous
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Well thatโ€™s something I too donโ€™t know
I feel itโ€™s a trial and error cuz I too am on the same boat๐Ÿ˜…

@sriva
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Well, avg age to lose your virginity in India is 23 years old.
If u are younger, then just wait. And if you are above 23 years, then also wait .
I mean it doesnโ€™t matter. U might feel ashamed between your peers.But its okay dude .
Being asexual , I dont know when will I lose it โ€ฆ it might take some months or years or idk forever โ€ฆ So for me idc.

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Anonymous
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Ahaan i get it. But sometimes that lust just kicks in

@sriva
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It happens. Just control your urges.

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s totally okay dude! Dw!
Weโ€™re not in a race. And just because everyone is doing it doesnโ€™t mean wr have to. As a virgin girl who sees everyone talking about sex and hookups etc even I felt like that. But after all, sex should be had only when weโ€™re ready and only when we find a trustworthy person for that.

And itโ€™s nothing like guys should lose Virginity first or sleep with lot of girls. It doesnโ€™t make you less cool if you havenโ€™t experienced it yet.

Tbh the whole concept of โ€œlosing virginity ASAPโ€ Is overrated and exaggerated.

Remember, weโ€™re not in a race ๐ŸŒป

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Anonymous
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Yeah i guess thatโ€™s true. Thanks

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Anonymous
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Thatโ€™s fine thereโ€™s nothing โ€œcoolโ€ about it so chill and I am a virgin too so letโ€™s not overthink this

@rk15
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Ohhkay wait.
Is losing virginity being cool and all???
Its okay you are hot!!๐Ÿ’ฃ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ˜‚
Focus on your career you hot brother๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ’ฃ

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Anonymous
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Nah, itโ€™s okay. Plus being a woman I myself and I know my friends too would take proud on having their first time with a first timer too.

And itโ€™s not something thatโ€™ll categorise you into the cool category. Itโ€™s something divine. Lose it with the right person at the right time. Donโ€™t rush into things. Donโ€™t do something thatโ€™ll make you regret it. Regretting something like your first time would be one thing youโ€™ll keep thinking all your life.

One of my close friends rushed into it and had the regret of a lifetime. Now sheโ€™s scared to do it again with anyone because, her very first experience was not so good.

Patience mateโ€ฆ Have some patience. Being not cool is much better than rushing into it and regretting it for lifetime.

Hope it helps and hope you understand too mate.

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