What's the difference between being in love and  being attached to someone. 

Attachment is a part of love...you'll be attached to someone you love but it's not necessary that you love someone you are attached to.

Confusion

Hi, 
I was sexually abused two years ago. And that night keeps recurring in my head. But recently it has been coming to me a lot lately. I did tell my mom when this thing took place but she did not do anything about it, I told my teacher and she didn't do anything about it, I told my guy friends and they didn't do anything about it. Nobody did anything. A year later I was sexually abused again by somebody else and I didn't tell anyone because I knew nobody would do anything. But for some reason, those two nights keep coming to me. Yesterday I was writing my Maths exam and I couldn't, I started crying midway, people thought because I didn't know the questions but in reality those nights kept coming to me. 
I don't know what to do, how do I stop thinking about those nights. 

Anxiety

Is being a girl a curse? And if it so then why did god ever made us? Just to see constant comparison, just to get us trained to be house maids, just to follow someone else’s instructions our whole life? When would we have some control on our own life? When would we get treated not as some unwanted shit? I’m honestly tired of hearing these stories, living these stories. 

Hey guys,
Anyone preparing for CAT and xat? Let’s connect and study together. 
repeaters bhi aake jhappi pa lo ek.

Work

I like a guy and we have been in a confused relationship like we aren't friends but we aren't dating too. He tells me he likes me and I like him too but most of the time we just argue and don't talk for weeks and then we start talking again and then in a week we fight again. This has been going on for about months now and I just can't leave him because I like him. He says he has trust issues but that doesn't explain his behaviour. I try so hard to understand him but he just won't share what he is angry about or what I did that disappointed him. He was angry with me yesterday when I said I don't have any problem with him but he has. And he ignored me the whole day. I called him at night and asked him what was bothering him and he just started to bring up all my past mistakes and that he can't trust me. I explained to him and asked him to trust me this time and everything was solved and now today he was good to me but during the afternoon he started behaving like that again and says that I don't care and all.  I don't know what to do. Should I just end it or keep trying..? 

Life was good until I found this app

Other

weird but does anyone else think how you'd probably off yourself if your grandparents were your parents? I do love him he's the best grandpa ever but he ruined my mom's life. idk how my mom can still go visit him and treat him nice. I would've shipped him to retirement home the minute if he was my dad. he hit my mom a lot he hit my grandma many times he always argued with them he didn't hold my mom when she was born bc she wasn't a male he took notes of how much money he spend on her and asked her that amount back he said he'd divorce grandma if my mom didn't marry someone now my dad sucks too but mom quickly married him just because he had small hands and didn't seem like he'd hit him. how fcking horrible is that? marrying someone because you at least hope they won't hit you? it's all grandpas fault and now he insists he didn't do any of those (at least the money part) tells us how great of a dad he was like?? bruh I would've rather die than to have u as a dad. he's treating me so well always giving me extra money checking up on me offering me place to stay trying to get to know me always praising me and I do love him but it's so weird. how can he treat me so well when he was a literal nightmare? People get so innocent and sweet when they get old it's scary. you made your families lives hell but now you get to be the good guy bc ur over 70? like I would've thought he was a great dad if my mom didn't tell me he really had me fooled. it's so weird. 

Family

I ask before but anyone who play upright piano here? 
I have quick question

Music

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