What’s better hiding feelings for your best friend to maintain friendship or just give a chance to yourself to express it ?
I think hiding feelings is pointless in general. Is harmful to you and not worth it. Try to confess in a sensible careful way so you don’t come off as selfish, but rather considerate.
What if a person is not good at expressing feelings or afraid of ?
Hm… well maybe try writing them down? Even if it sounds soppy and dramatic and cringe… just get used to exposing them… try reading them out loud to yourself…
If it’s like a regular problem, maybe try journaling. Personally, it really helps, maybe it will help you too.
This is a good idea have tried too.
Never hide feelings!
You should try to express . Atleast you won’t feel that you missed a chance and regret forever that something really great could have blossomed
Simran @st1199
Hi,
If you are someone going with the flow, take the chance and leave the rest.
If you are someone planned and looks at the future, think about what possibilities can be and if not what you want, then what?
In either of the cases, you NEED to accept what it is and don’t blame yourself or him/her for what happened. Rather accept and maturity comes with continuing to have the bond and not ruin it (If a situation isn’t in your favor).
Hey Simran, I agree with you that’s what I feel is let the thing gradually happen and not be too spontaneous.
Simran @st1199
Yes, just needs to be careful what you are going into and not regret it later.
