What you allow is what will continue.
The best friend I had is no longer a best friend, but a habit. Iβm holding on to loose ends and itβs suffocating me. I can feel an itch everytime I see him, everytime I see him happy, everytime I see him happy with her. Iβm longing for a love I know I canβt get, begging for support from someone who canβt give it. My thoughts try to convince me that he just doesnβt care about me, because his actions arenβt the same as mine, but deep down I know itβs wrong of me to assume so. Itβs not that he doesnβt care, he just doesnβt care as much as Iβm expecting him too. I put my happiness in his hands and thatβs the biggest mistake i ever made.
Happened with me too. Realised later that he was anyway no good for me and I wasted so much time and energy on someone, unnecessarily.