What would you do if you come to know that your parent is cheating on his/her partner? I mean of you find your mom cheating on your dad or vice versa? Talking is not a solution. It happens every time and no doors are opened! It's the same always!

Are you sure about the situation?
 Or you just have doubts...?
If you are sure about the situation i think you should tell  the other parent about that....and see don't take any steps out of anger...just be calm..and say Everything to your dad ... Because he has the right to know Everything...

Parenting

Trigger warning! I'm literally out right now cause my dad yelled at me.😃He has issues with his siblings and then he express his anger towards me and my family. I won't accept another stupid apology from him! I won't go home tonight,I'll see my uncle. I want him to see what he had done to me. I also need him tho for money. FML.

Anger Issues

I hate my father. He is the most narcissistic person ever. He never loved his children or our mother. He is an alcoholic, aggressive, violent and bad mouthed person. He blames us and our mother gor his failures, always gets jealous of people's successes. I hate him. 

Alcohol

***Trigger Warning***
I tend to remain happy and calm all the time.Do my work passionately and sincerely,behave decently at public places. But at home,especially when my father tries to put any decision on me,I get pissed off.Really really pissed off.When an argument gets heated between us,he acts like a stranger to me and drags my mother in between as if she is responsible for my arguing.
I really hate my father.

Mental Health

My dad publicly admitted that he hates me...

Anxiety

Ever since I hit puberty my father has changed towards me. We use to be really close and he was an okay dad but ever since I hit puberty he is extremely distant and cold with me. The only times he has something to say is when he calls me names such as piggy, fatass, skank, slut, whore, and basically stuff like that. I literally can't do anything right anymore. I got in trouble for not putting socks away correctly. I don't know what happened with him. Is this normal for dads to do?

Confusion

I grew up admiring my father, he was my hero, I always looked up to him, wanted to be like him. But now i hate him. His drinking habit has ruined the family. I cant see my mom cry every night anymore. I hate him so much. 

Family

How do you deal with physical abuse from your father? I'm a 19 year old guy dependent on my parents for my needs. Every time when my father has to give me money or spend it for me he starts a fight and he spends only when he no other choice. When I ask him to money to travel to college he beats me in the morning. He has his absolute dictatorship here. He doesn't allow me or restricts my freedom to a maximum extent so that I stay dependent on him and have to be submissive and obedient. I have been deprived of choices in my career due to his decision on what I have to study.He is abusive,  violent and arrogant by nature.My mother is very much accustomed to this toxic behavior and has adapted to it.But I cannot deal with this violent behavior.I started attending offline classes so that we don't clash during his online training and to stay away from home in order to avoid fights.He has extreme anger issues and struggles with money management. I cannot discuss about this with anyone .I cannot complain about this to anyone no one I know is capable or willing to go against  him to support me.His decisionsare often hasty, insensitive and is adamant .It has always been like I obey him I get what he thinks is best for me.He has only provided me with bare minimum and basic necessities in life.I agree that parents do struggle a lot to fulfill their children's needs but here He decides what I need.Anything for that matter. Right from my haircut to the color of clothes I wear has to be his choice-this is not because I want to be in any indecent attire or behavior according to the society but because he wants it to coincide with his idea..I am abused mentally, physically and emotionally almost everyday. I don't want to be beaten by father at this age and I definitely want to revolt or retaliate but my mother thinks that is wrong and everyone else is of a similar opinion. The abuse has traumatized me and affects my overall functioning in other aspects. Even when there's no abuse I have constant anger with in me about the behavior in me I just can't forgive or forget but I do not want to do anything or even care about the persons existence at all. Everytime I try to complain about the toxic behavior of his my mother tries to draw similarities with me and him which can not even be considered to be similar or relevant. There is extreme criticism for every action of minr. They have instilled so much of self hate in me.I have myself ,my achievements are never appreciated and I don't understand why some people think that it is disrespectful to not allow an elderly person to disrespect you. I am treated badly and I'm told Everytime I eat that I am eating from his earning and to have an opinion I should earn .the hypocrisy is that the person was dependent and only started to earn in his early 30s.I have to apologize every time even if I am right so I hate myself more than anyone I have ever met. I am always reminded of my mistakes from the past and it is used to control as they know it is a trigger to me. 

hi guys,
i feel so stuck at the moment. my mum is with a guy that constantly drinks and when he does he gets mean and passes out on the couch. my mum always defends him and says "he has a lot on his plate right now " or " he hasn't been drinking as much" they fight all the time even when she denies it. his been a complete a**hole to me the whole time I've known him, he called me horrible names and said things like "you wonder why your dad doesn't want you" i never got an apology instead i got yelled at for showing attitude back to him after he said those things and he never got in trouble. every time he drinks it takes a massive toll on me and i sometimes i need to just talk to someone about it rather than bottling it up . my mum told me "if you say anything to anyone i will be VERY mad " and "i wouldn't tell anyone about your business " so i cant talk to no one about it and especially her as she always gets defensive and I'm always the bad guy in the end. Every time me and him get into a fight they always use things against me such as "his good enough when he can buy you things" .its such a toxic household and i feel so trapped.

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