What would a guy choose if have to choose between his girl or insecurity/possivenes ? 

It's like a guy has to choose his girl or the possesiveness/insecurity he has for his girl ( this possesiveness is too much that he don't even like she having a male frnd or any male in her life expect him and her dad/and cousins

But if uk that no matter what happens she won't leave then why that possesiveness? It's like the girl should not even talk with a guy for work related stuff as well 

This is what it is na n idk how to make him understand this.. I too love when he gets a bit possesive but sometimes it's too much 

Why do they choose their possesiveness over their girl? 

Yeah that's what happening n i told him to either work on his possesiveness Or choose me.. He's like I should not even talk or follow a guy or while some work id I've to go anywhere with a male he is so possesive

Ik :) going through it but we talked yesterday and I tried my best to let him work on it at 1st he was like not you but my possesiveness and I was like wtf and in the end he said I'll try to work on it

What if he isn't allowing to go for some work as well with a guy.. He doesn't even like me following any guy on SM and literally gets so angry if u told him I've to go for work and a guy from my workplace is gonna is assigned with me what should I do then? Leave my work bcoz there are other males? So I told him you either work on your possesiveness Or choose me

What if the guy says that he doesn't like a single male around me? In my work place too?? Should I leave my work bcoz of it? 

We are really good about everything but this thing is gonna break both of us apart ig

what a crappy advice. why cant a guy marry someone just because a girl has male friends? its sad to see how people think, you are talking about her mom, dude you have issues, resolve it 

We don't work we are in clg rn n I'm the cultural secretary and I'm NSS as well so I've to go for that work and i literally got so far from all of my male frnds

Actually like I felt like asking that guy weather his mom, sister don't work and don't have any male mates around them 

well that's how you meet possessive guys who can spot you in anonymous crowd !!

well spotting someone like that is creepy !! and guy who remembers such anonymous post should find a life. 

what do you mean by league ? there is no league there is no such parameters.  

But it doesn't matter if both of them love each other

so you are saying if a girl who is beautiful and has many proposals have a higher league than the guy who is average looking. its sad to see such thinking. attraction is one thing and love is another. 

Yes it is and some people don't just understand that

these are attributes , a girl who is culturally , socially or financially different from the guy than the relationship will have difficulties. but just because of looks i dont agree.

I am not saying looks dont play part in relationship all i am saying that it is not a league. if you like someone who is good looking is cool but getting pissed if other finding her good looking is not cool. the league is not created by boy and girl, it is created by people surrounding them.anyway no point in arguing. 

no point in arguing with you cause you not tryin to understand. Leagues are created by people. people around you make you hot not you yourself. also if you are talking about league which means association of people/group. also not every one is financially ok. my point is if you look good and hangs around with a bunch of good looking people doesn't make an average guy insecure. he might be hesitate which is normal but calling him insecure is stereotyping.  

Argh guys please this is becoming an unnecessary chat stop here

Argh I need to delete this post.. You guyss i asked for a suggestion and you both started something else 

Bro please stop start a new thread not on mine please

Bro stop this me and my bf are on equal and there's no league between us you rho started something else only

Shut the f up and don't post anything more on my post please i asked you something else and going on some where else

And ik what's my value is n what I deserve so thank you and please stop this 

possessiveness is an instinct not something you choose. i think you need to work on suppress this instinct. 

Boyfriend

"Depression isn't a war you win. 
It's a battle you fight everyday.
You never stop, never get to rest. 
It's one bloody fray after another."
-Shaun David Hutchinson

Depression

What do u do when the person whom u love the most decides to abandon u bcz his family won't agree. I have known him since highschool it's been years , I don't even know what to do anymore. I am in disbelief, why did this happen to me . Is it that easy to move on , to forget and decide on spending your life with someone whom you have known for a month. How do u define the hierarchy of love and importance. I pity myself. I feel numb, and this constant pain and weird feeling, which I wish just stopped. 
I wish I was at the top of his priority list, i wish I was loved . 
I don't know how to navigate from this,all my anxiety is drowning me. All these years i have loved and cherished him . I don't know what to do anymore.

Relationships

so i smoke and over discord there was this server with like most ppl from our school there and ppl kept sayin sum "stop smoking"... no... but then i got banned from the server bc i broke up with the guy who owned it (we got back together😋 hes my 4lifer🤞😋) but there was this one guy named nick(not his name) and he would dm me with paragraphs on how i shouldnt smoke. its sweet and all but dude be quiet... but uhmm we was all online last year but now we in person and i never knew what he looked like, only his voice bc we used to call. so im at school one day and this stranger comes up to me like "are you panda?" (my discord name) and ofc i said yea. tell me why this stranger said "stop smoking." WHEN I TELL YALL MY HEAD TURNED. i said sum "NICK??" bc we was fr best friends... and then we hugged and stuff. it was so cute. we had lunch and 2nd hr together and when i tell you that teacher has never hated two students as much as they hate us... we got separated like 4 times but we still found a way back to each other... in between classes we walk around school together with my bf and we just act goofy asf. school is so fun now like it fr wasnt like this b4 covid😭 but its the weekend so me, my bf, and his friends finna ride they bike to my house then we all goin downtown💀 we might go to the gas station and try to buy a breeze. i look mad old so ima have to buy it... but we finna be trippin up in these stores istg.

Friends

How can I get rid of this thing called "LIFE"

Loss

i think i have adhd. im a 12 year old girl so its probably not noticeable but i was reading articles on it. my mom made me move in with my dad and he invalidates my feelings all the time and im usually happy but ive been having panic attacks and ive been sad lately. so of course i took a depression quiz. and an anxiety one. i knew before that i might have adhd so i didnt really care about it but i saw an adhd test so i took it. it said i have it. so i went on google to search stuff "adhd symptoms in girls" and stuff like that. in an article it said girls with adhd have higher rates of self harm, substance abuse, and suicide attempts. i do all of that all the time. and when i think about it i cry like really hard. just me writing this makes me think i have adhd because i keep writing stuff that has nothing to do with the topic and then deleting it. my dad found out i cut and he yelled at me. the day before i tried to kill myself. and the reason why im here is because i did mushrooms and overdosed in school... i always wonder whats wrong with me and i always think theres other things but adhd in girls can cause depression and anxiety. that was the final thing that proved to me i have adhd. im 100% certain atp. i thought they were just things by themselves but i realized that thats my problem. i have adhd. it feels so nice to finally know whats wrong with me. it makes me cry. i just dont know how to tell my family. my dad thinks self harm is weak. he said that im weak because i self harm. it hurts but i know hes wrong. i know im not weak. im just sad. i just hate myself. hes pushing me to my limit i swear. but i feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest. i finally know why im like this. after hating myself for years it finally clicked. another sign that i have adhd is that i was doing my homework... homework lead to this. lol. my last school looked down on me when i showed symptoms. when i would get angry, when i did impulsive stuff. they yelled at me. but with my brother they did everything they could to help him. i read that that happens. they invalidate the symptoms. or they dont realize it. i feel better but i still hate the way im being treated. im over emotional too. i walk around happy but when one thing goes wrong i just... idk like break down. i cry. i yell at everyone. i cut, i do drugs, i try to kill myself, i shut everyone out. i hate doing it. it makes me do it more. and then more. it sucks and all i want is help but i know i cant get that here. my dads a man. he doesnt have feeling nor know what they are. idk what to do anymore

ADHD

The more you will take risk, the more you will get the opportunity to earn more & more.....

Adulting

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Happy

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