What will you do if you are married to an impotent guy? Though he loves me but his inability of performing sexually keeps me reminding of my ex boyfriend. It’s been 2 yrs since I got married. I had moved on but lately I have started missing my ex but never contacted him nor I want to. I don’t know what’s wrong or right but I’m literally mentally messed up and get frustrated over petty things. I’m not the same person I used to be. Hating this version.
Maybe it’s time you try different things. Sex toys, different forms of sex (which both can agree upon). Since you seem to have tried therapy and medical consultation this seems to be a valid option to try out. Don’t go seeking out for ex though, it will complicate things for you and your partner and your ex too (since he is married). Things will work out.