What to do when you know exactly that you did the right thing but nobody sees that. Everybody says you’re wrong. Some don’t even talk to me now. I feel bad. But i know i didn’t do anything wrong.
Just go on with that. I f you feel you’re doing the right thing then just move forward with that. Remember you can never satisfy the society, they will keep pushing u. We are always bad in someone’s story.
Yeah you’re right. They are never satisfied. The thing is sometimes i really don’t understand why they don’t understand. I feel depressed. Like why they hate me without a reason. Basically they are all my relatives. I was the successful girl in my family and one decision and now they all hate me.
They will never understand. If you tell them you’re depressed also its nothing for them. Some of them won’t even try to get till there. If elders., they’re always right in their point of view and being the younger have we have to always obey them. Don’t even try to explain to them cause in their eyes we will be talking against them which is a sign of no respect but only u knows what you’re going through. I stopped explaining to people when i thought they will understand me but no all they did was made my life hard. So stop explaining. If you have yourself is enough I would say. If you don’t mind can I know what is the decision?
Wow. Thank you. I really was thinking about all this what you just said. I tried to explain everyone but nobody gets anything. Instead as you said if they are elder they immediately think i am disrespecting them… which is just not the case. After trying and trying… explaining and crying… being depressed… i realized that the only person who can get me out of this shit is “me”. I read somewhere crying in front of people is like bleeding in front of a shark. So i decided to show myself strong … not explaining anything. To nobody just as you said. I don’t owe anything justification anyone
Exactly that’s all they can think about. Trust me our family can never be friends. There are out there parents treating their kids like a friend but not mine. My dad used and still mentally abusing me everyday. So ya just be yourself. Dont bother about others already. They are here to judge and make your life miserable only. It took me 26 years to understand that no matter what at the end u have only yourself.Yeah… You have to lift yourself no matter what happens. You have yourself. Exactly u get it. Just like bleeding and there’s nothing can be undone. Exactly if u know what you are doing is right, benefits you just go on with the flow. You know your limits.
Yess! Agree 100%. My father too.
Haaiihhh sometimes cant understand what they are actually thinking…