What to do when you donβt feel valued by your partner?
U leave them
Right because if you have to beg him for knowing your worth then itβs not meant to be
Makes sense
But could βhe doesnβt value me sometimesβ be a long term relationshipβs reason to break up?
Itβs a relationship
Sanket @sanket
You build your value, make them fall for you againβ¦
How?
Sanket @sanket
First figure out how did your value start falling, what actions are making you feel less valued. Why your partner is doing such actions/behaviour.
Introduce some distance and silence between both of you
Have done that a lot of times. Tried communicating. He only feels my value when we have arguments or if there are chances of me leaving. Only then he realises my value and gets all scared of losing me. Iβm so confused and Iβm understanding nothing
Sanket @sanket
So can we say that this is time to ignite the spark in your relationship?
Only expressing may not be enough, have you tried taking action?
And have you learned anything from his reactions? Any pattern?
Is he under stress or something? Perhaps focused on other aspect?
Heβs veryyy much focused on heβs career. Heβs under stress. But he never let me in. Never shares anything. Neither shows much love it give compliments. Doesnβt tell my what heβs expectations are. To ignite the spark Iβd need reciprocation which I donβt get. He neither tells heβs need not take care of my needs.