U leave them
Right because if you have to beg him for knowing your worth then it’s not meant to be
Makes sense
But could “he doesn’t value me sometimes” be a long term relationship’s reason to break up?
It’s a relationship
Sanket @sanket
You build your value, make them fall for you again…
How?
Sanket @sanket
First figure out how did your value start falling, what actions are making you feel less valued. Why your partner is doing such actions/behaviour.
Introduce some distance and silence between both of you
Have done that a lot of times. Tried communicating. He only feels my value when we have arguments or if there are chances of me leaving. Only then he realises my value and gets all scared of losing me. I’m so confused and I’m understanding nothing
Sanket @sanket
So can we say that this is time to ignite the spark in your relationship?
Only expressing may not be enough, have you tried taking action?
And have you learned anything from his reactions? Any pattern?
Is he under stress or something? Perhaps focused on other aspect?
He’s veryyy much focused on he’s career. He’s under stress. But he never let me in. Never shares anything. Neither shows much love it give compliments. Doesn’t tell my what he’s expectations are. To ignite the spark I’d need reciprocation which I don’t get. He neither tells he’s need not take care of my needs.
