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Anonymous

What to do if you and your partner have very different priorities? Like one wants to do the most in the love and the other doesn’t want to give much time in the relationship

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yoursecondhandt... @andrerowan

Well, I say that you should let them know what you expect from them. Be clear and honest and then if they don’t try to be the best person they can be for you, than it simply means you’re not meant to be. It’s tough but it’s not worth stagnating in a relationship that has no future.

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Anonymous

What if it’s a very long term relationship?

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yoursecondhandt... @andrerowan

People can change. People’s priorities and feelings change. There’s nothing wrong with that.

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Anonymous

So basically, I’ve been trying to compromise for my partner. A lot. Going too much out of my comfort zone and it’s not the same with my partner.

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Anonymous

I just diagnosed with a mental disorder. I’m suffering quite too much, If a person did actually loved me, he/she would’ve been with me right now, right?

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yoursecondhandt... @andrerowan

Absolutely! You deserve all the support and love possible! I’m sorry you’re going through it alone!

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yoursecondhandt... @andrerowan

Tell them you’re not comfortable compromising this much when they’re not even trying. And also, don’t do anything you’re not okay with, no matter who’s it for!

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Anonymous

Basically, just lost my dog, got diagnosed with a mental disorder. And I am just not fine, but my partner is with friend from 1ish in the afternoon till 10-11pm at night. He/she doesn’t reply to my messages, and comes to just sleep around 12. We don’t talk. He/she doesn’t bother to ask if I’m fine. I feel I just have to adjust. We slept together on call each night, but, after losing my dog, it’s been tough, my partner said just because we HAVE to sleep on call I can’t play games with friends or watch tv at the night. Today was our small anniversary and my partner is going on a nightout with friends

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yoursecondhandt... @andrerowan

This doesn’t sound okay at all. Maybe it’s their way of coping with you having got diagnosed. But if they were like this before all this occurred, then maybe you should take a break. If that’s what you feel like doing, you should do it.

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Anonymous

To be honest, with what’s going on, the diagnosis is what I’ve already suffered with in the past. I feel the loneliest even while being with my partner.
I just want to make him/her understand that rn, all I need is one significant person that can just be there for me.

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Anonymous

That is very sweet :,)

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