What to do if the guy harm himself in every argument just to scare his girl about what is triggering her in relationship.
I’m scared to my guy . I even don’t know how to handle him, because whenever we have arguments or any fight he use to slap himself.
I have isolated myself because I am scared.
And i am unable to share these things to my friends and family too.
I ain’t able to deal with this. And so much suffocation is in my chest.
Panic attacks and anxiety, I am suffering alone without saying anything to anyone.
I have deleted my all social accounts because I feel he will message me then if i reply and have conversation he will again do those things.
Hey! You’re going through a very tough time. I’m here to hear you out. It’s not easy dealing with such a situation and there is a way out.
I am in severe toxicity. And unable to move forward.
Toxic family, toxic friends, toxic relationship. That’s why I have isolated myself.
Wo isliye aisa kr raha hai jis sai aap unse dur na ja sko lekin isse apko bhi to acha nahi lagega
anuj @anujvohra
Try to maintain distance is the best bet. Do inform your parents if it’s okay with you. Else, just keep safe distance.
He is just Gaslighting you. You are in kind of abusive relationship though a mental one.
He is messaging me through Google pay. I feel very weak after getting his messages.
Just block him from everywhere. Do not leave any space for him to connect. And just remember that such kind of people do not commit any wrong step. So don’t worry
Leave the guy, never reply to his messages, change your contact number, inform your friends ( cos he might get crazy ). Save yourself from such toxicity. Be safe 🤍
We never talked our things to any of our friends. We use to keep our fight with ourselves.
This is why he’s taking advantage of you. He knows you don’t have any support and there’s no one to tell you what is wrong and what is right. Classic abuser tactics.
Hey I’m kinda feeling the same. Shall we talk in DM
Okay
There ?
Is better to cut off these self harming person in your life. Keep all the emotions aside and think logically. You are torturing yourself. Dont drag urself in a dark place u dont deserve that. One of the biggest red flag in relationship is if one of them threatens to self harm. Block him and try to move on u deserve better. 7 billion people in the world
Gagandeep K. @gagandeep_ka...
Hey, hope you’re doing okay…
That’s a clear sign of Manipulation and Triggering your weakness (caring for someone doesn’t mean you’re weak but giving someone an authority and control to manipulate you in the name of care is wrong to self and to the other person as well)
More power to you.
If you feel like connecting for support, you can reach out to me as I’m a counselling psychologist:)
